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12/18/09
Christmas is near
In just a week we will be celebrating Christmas. I am
sharing with you today some thoughtful notes from my friends. The first
deals with
a carol we all learned as children.
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There is one
Christmas Carol that has always baffled me. What in the world do leaping
lords, French hens, swimming swans, and
especially, a partridge which won’t
come out of the pear tree have to do with Christmas?
From 1558 until
1829, Roman Catholics in England were not permitted to practice their faith
openly. Someone during that era wrote this
carol as a catechism song for
young Catholics.
It has two levels of meaning: The surface meaning plus a
hidden meaning known only to members of the Catholic church. Each element
in
the carol has a code word for a religious reality which the children could remember. The partridge in a pear tree was Jesus Christ. Two
turtle doves were the Old and New Testaments. Three French hens stood for faith, hope and love. Four calling birds were the four gospels of
Matthew, Mark, Luke and John.
Five golden rings recalled the Torah or
Law, the first five books of the Old Testament. Six geese a-laying stood
for the six days of
creation. Seven swans a-swimming represented the
sevenfold gifts of the Holy Spirit — prophesy, serving, teaching,
exhortation,
contribution, leadership, and mercy. Eight maids a-milking
were the eight beatitudes. Nine ladies dancing were the nine fruits of the
Holy Spirit — love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self control.
Ten lords a-leaping were the
10 commandments. Eleven pipers piping stood for the 11 faithful disciples.
Twelve drummers drumming
symbolized the 12 points of belief in the
Apostles’ Creed.
So there is your trivia lesson for today. You never know
when this will come in handy!
___
Another friend sent this to me
recently and now I share it with you. In keeping with the Christmas
holiday, here are some thoughts for
life, hopefully inspired by the “Reason
for the Season.”
Letter from Jesus about Christmas:
It has come to my
attention that many of you are upset that folks are taking my name out of
the season. Maybe you’ve forgotten that I
wasn’t actually born during this
time of the year. It was some of your predecessors who decided to celebrate
my birthday on what was
actually a time of pagan festival, although I do
appreciate being remembered anytime.
How I personally feel about this
celebration can probably be most easily understood by those of you who have
been blessed with children
of your own. I don’t care what you call the day.
If you want to celebrate my birth, just get along and love one
another.
Stop worrying about the fact that people are calling the tree a holiday tree, instead of a Christmas tree. It was I who made all
trees.
You can remember me anytime you see any tree. Decorate a grape vine if you
wish. I actually spoke of that one in a teaching,
explaining who I am in
relation to you and what each of our tasks were. If you have forgotten that
one, look up John 15: 1-8.
If you want to give me a present in remembrance of
my birth, here is my wish list — choose something from it:
1. Instead of
writing protest letters objecting to the way my birthday is being
celebrated, write letters of love and hope to
soldiers away from home. They
are terribly afraid and lonely this time of year. I know, they tell me all
the time.
2. Visit someone in a nursing home. You don’t have to know them personally. They just need to know that someone cares about them.
3.
Instead of giving your children a lot of gifts you can’t afford and they
don’t need, spend time with them. Tell them the story of my
birth, and why
I came to live with you down here. Hold them in your arms and remind them
that I love them.
4. Pick someone that has hurt you in the past and forgive
him or her.
5. Did you know that someone in your town will attempt to take
their own life this season because they feel so alone and hopeless? Since
you don’t know who that person is, try giving everyone you meet a warm
smile; it could make the difference.
6. If you really want to make a
difference, support a missionary — especially one who takes my love and
good news to those who have
never heard my name.
7. Here’s a good one.
There are individuals and whole families in your town who not only will
have no “Christmas” tree, but neither
will they have any presents to give
or receive. If you don’t know them, buy some food and a few gifts and give
them to the Salvation
Army or some other charity which believes in me and
they will make the delivery for you.
8. Finally, if you want to make a
statement about your belief in and loyalty to me, then behave like a
Christian. Let people know by your
actions that you are one of
mine.
Don’t forget: I am God and can take care of myself. Just love me and do what I have told you to do. I’ll take care of all the rest. Check
out the list above and get to work; time is short. I’ll help you, but the ball is now in your court. And do have a most blessed Christmas with all those whom you love, and remember, I love you.
Jesus
Merry
Christmas to all of you.
12/11/09
A soldier’s Christmas story
She was only 14 years old in 1968 and that’s the
year that Nancy Fisher Thomas’s brother, David, died in Vietnam. At the
recent Veteran’s Day ceremony in Marysville, she was asked to tell her story. Here’s how it went.
Nancy had three brothers, Walter, Joe and
David. She was the youngest and only daughter. David had enlisted in the
Army and was stationed
in Vietnam. It was September of 1968 and when he was
asked in a letter (the only way in those days) what he would like for
Christmas, he simply said, a small Christmas tree that he could take to a village nearby that had a lot of children.
Of course, they wouldn’t have
a Christmas tree. Nancy said there weren’t any available in September in
those days, so her parents ordered one through Lazarus. It arrived in
October. She and her mother were very excited to head to downtown Columbus
to pick up the tree. It was all boxed up and ready to go, so they took it
to the post office to send it off to her brother, so he could do a good
deed in Vietnam.
That was Saturday, Oct. 26, 1968, and that evening they
received the devastating news. David, only 21, had been killed four days
earlier, Oct. 22, and they were just learning of it. Even though that was
41 years ago, Nancy can remember every minute of that terrible time for her family, which included David’s wife, Janet.
The thought of the
Christmas tree may have just gone out of their minds at this sad time, but
many weeks later here came the tree, back in the mail, unopened. What could
they do with that tree that had meant so much to their son, brother and
husband? How would they remember him with this story?
The answer was
easy — it became the Christmas tree of her parents, Herb and Ruby Fisher
(now deceased). For many years it was the only tree decorated and enjoyed
in their home.
Sometime later, as their lives changed, Nancy became custodian
of the tree. She is a sixth grade teacher in the Fairbanks School system
and this tree became part of her classroom. Her students would make their own ornaments for it every year and she would tell the story of her brother and how he hoped to share this tree with children in Vietnam. Now they were the ones who would benefit from his kindness.
Nancy said:
“I believe God put that on David’s heart to ask for that tree — the tree
that was never given any water, didn’t have any roots, and never grew any
taller, but actually brought smiles to hundreds of children.”
“I think
one lesson to be learned from this story is that there’s a lot more to the
military than battles, guns, and bloodshed. Acts of kindness are done each
and everyday by America’s servicemen and women, acts that they themselves
may never be aware of. In the eyes of my teenage self, these are some
things that my brother loved. He loved a nice car (both driving it or being
underneath it), a clean car (he’d pay me a quarter to do that) and a
straight ironed crease in his pants (he paid me a quarter for that,
too.)”
“He also loved his mother-in-law’s (Frieda Nicol) pecan pie, a good hunting day, his friends and family and being a soldier.”
12/4/09
Forty years ago in Marysville
It was 1969. I remember most of it like it was
yesterday. My husband of less than two years and I were moving to his
hometown — Marysville.
Of course, I had been there many times, but we were
now going to make our home there. We were coming from Columbus where my
family and many of our friends were, so it didn’t seem like such a big
move. But it was. Moving to Marysville for me was like entering a different
world, one where I felt sometimes like I didn’t belong.
Marysville, 40
years ago seemed to me like a closed society for the most part. Certainly
not like it is today. At that time, if you didn’t grow up in the area, the
natives were distant or so it appeared to me. They didn’t know me and I
didn’t know many of them.
It was difficult to develop friends. One exception
to that was Jody Streng. She was our neighbor and soon a good friend — she
was a lifesaver. Her husband, Don, worked at the Journal-Tribune and my husband had known them most of his life.
As is common in these
situations, Dan went to work where he had plenty to do and knew many of the
people in the town of about 5,000. (That number is now about 17,000.) He
knew his way around town and I began to learn.
Soon it became apparent
to me that tree streets went one way and number streets the opposite. We
lived on Collins Ave. at the edge of town and I only got lost a few times.
Dan thought that was really funny. As he and I became involved in the
community, I met many people, but most already had their busy lives
set.
Shopping in downtown Marysville was quite different then. Most stores closed on Wednesday afternoon. There were two shoe stores, Hecker's (Bill Hecker now works at the deli at Kroger) and Hayes and Gray; a men’s clothing store, Otte’s; and a small department store, Weiss brothers. There were two drugstores, Shields on the square and Orahood
and McCarthy on S. Main St. with a soda fountain and nickel coffee.
In
the early 1970s women dressed quite differently and pants were just coming
into popularity for anything other than casual wear. Dresses were still the
norm to be worn for any sort of occasion and there were two dress shops in
downtown Marysville, Freida’s (near the movie theater) and Alice’s located
at the site of the Elks Lodge at the corner of E. Fifth and Plum
Sts.
There was also a children’s store, Tot and Teen, on N. Main St. This was a regular stop for me since Dan and I had our first son, Mike, about six months after moving to town. I remember most of the clothes were stored in boxes and after seeing a sample on display, the customer
had to ask to see a specific size or color of the Buster Brown clothes for
small children.
If you wanted to go out for a very nice dinner in this area
the place was Timber Trails Country Club on Rt. 38, which is now the
Marysville golf course. If you enter it today you would never believe this
was a lovely dining room with white tablecloths and good food. I miss that place, which has been gone as a nice restaurant for about 20 years.
It
seems hard to imagine a world without fast food restaurants, which dot the
town now in several locations. In 1969, the popular spot downtown was the
Lamplighter Restaurant located where Adecco is — just off the corner of
Fourth and Main Sts. It was great home cooking at a decent price, run by
the Rockenbaugh family including Catherine’s mother, Sarah Roosa, who baked
wonderful pies daily.
Even though this good restaurant was located right next
to the Journal-Tribune, Dan came home for lunch every day. His father had done the same. I guess that was the custom of many Marysville business
people. I thought it was great because now I had a little baby I was home
with all day and was grateful for the short time I could hand him over to
someone else.
I don’t know when all that ended (maybe because we had a
second child, Kevin) but Dan’s schedule certainly filled up as managing editor of the Journal-Tribune, only allowing for a quick bowl of soup downtown.
It’s hard to believe I am becoming a senior member of this
community, but this is the beginning of my memories of Marysville which
will continue in the future.
11/27/09
The Geer family — a commitment to excellence
Mark and Linda Geer have known
each other for a long time. In fact, they were sweethearts while students at
Fairbanks High School, and later
married and had two children, Marcus and
Margo.
The children’s claim to fame has been that of two champion swimmers
and their parents couldn’t be prouder. Marcus is at Denison University in
his senior year on the swim team and is applying to medical school.
Margo is a world class swimmer and only a senior in high school at
Fairbanks. Both have achieved their status because of the commitment
their parents have made to excellence and to helping their children
achieve their potential.
Margo has just returned from the World Cup
Tournament in Stockholm and Berlin as a representative of the U.S. on the
Junior World Cup swimming team. No one on this team can be over 18 years
old. Others from the U.S. going head to head with the students included
Michael Phelps plus other members of the Olympic team.
If these
professional swimmers break a record (Peter Marshall did) they can earn as
much as $10,000. Of course, college and high school swimmers are not
eligible for these awards. Incidentally, Michael Phelps was a big help to
the young junior members of the U.S. team. He gave
inspirational speeches
and practiced with them, encouraging everyone.
Margo swam in five events
(against older swimmers from countries like France, Italy and Japan) and her
highest place was 15th, but it must be
quickly noted that she was, in some
places, only 1/100 of a second off making the finals. Her training to help
knock off that 100th of a second
in the future includes swimming with
buckets attached to a bungee cord and swimming also with weights on her
body. This is a daily training
routine that she has been dedicated to. In
the last year she has only taken one week off.
Mark says that the small
split second can come off her time when everything just falls into place at
once! He is a coach at Mechanicsburg
High School and Margo’s mother, Linda,
also coaches there. Margo has come from an athletic family and the
understanding that her parents have of student athletes surely must benefit
her. Mark said the most important thing to keep an athlete from being burned
out is to change
the routine and Margo does that, plus travels a lot,
competing in meets all over the country and of course on the world scene.
That includes
just returning from Stockholm and Berlin and previously
Australia. She’ll be out west next year since she has signed to swim for the
University of Arizona in Tucson.
Margo said she loved Stockholm even
though it was dark at 3 p.m. every day. The climate was more temperate and
at this time of year there was no snow. The people were friendly and most
spoke English. Berlin was also great and she was able to squeeze in a tour
to see the remnants of
the Berlin Wall. The city didn’t quite have the
warmth of Sweden.
Mark and Linda have traveled with Margo for most of her
competition and they turned to each other last week and said, “Can you
believe we are in Berlin?” It was a last minute plan since Mark coaches
football at Mechanicsburg. He had to wait to see if his team made the
playoffs. It
didn’t, so when that happened the Geers made speedy plans to
head to Berlin for four days and watch Margo swim.
She is a young woman
of few words and much humility, maintaining a 4.0 at Fairbanks in spite of
her travel and practice schedule. Her dad said
she swam last Sunday in a
meet at Cleveland State and broke the pool record, then preceded to calmly
just get out and grab her towel to move
on to the next event. Her mom and
dad have cautioned her to keep everything low key and in perspective and
that’s what she does. All the
hard work has started to pay off for her, and
her parents are sure she has learned from her older brother, Marcus. He’s
extremely analytical,
so he watches her swim, makes suggestions and has set
a good example at training hard, which Margo follows.
The Geer children
have benefited from all the hard work of their parents, both teachers, who
are lucky enough to be able to take some
time away from their jobs and
follow their children in what are actually short competition years. The
Geers believe that even though it seems
there’s so much ahead, it will go
quickly. They don’t want to miss a minute of it, including all home meets
for Marcus at Denison.
They say it’s been the ride of a lifetime and that
time will be gone too soon and become great memories.
(Melanie Behrens -
melb@imetweb.net)
11/20/09
The Irish meet the Irish
For him it was a trip long planned, one he had hoped
to take with his father. But his father, Paul Cotter, passed away too soon.
So, Bob
Cotter and his sons, Bobby and Kevin, plus Bob’s brother Pat and
his sons, Sean and Patrick, went to Ireland to see their ancestor’s
home.
Bob Cotter grew up in Worthington and was able to know his grandfather Maurice Murphy Cotter, who was born in Ireland in 1879
and
died at the age of 86. Bob heard stories from him of beautiful Rathcormack,
Ireland, the place where Maurice grew up. He was the
youngest of 13
children who lived in a tiny home surrounded by farmland. At age 20, he
left the homeland to come to Columbus, Ohio,
where his 40-year-old brother
lived.
But, as Bob said, “In those days, which would be about 1900, if you were Irish you worked on the railroad” and that took his grandfather
to
Galion, Ohio. There, Maurice married and eventually made his way back to
the Worthington area, where his children grew up. One of them
was Bob’s
father, Paul.
Finally this trip came to fruition and the Cotters went back to
visit the home that Maurice talked about so much. Just being in Ireland
had
to be great for them as Irish as the Cotter family is (never missing a St. Patrick’s Day parade in downtown Columbus).
Every picture I saw of
their trip involved beautiful, lush, green grass and for good reason since
Bob said it rained every day. This
time of the year the weather is usually
in the 50s and wet, but its stays temperate and never snows in southern
Ireland where his family
came from.
The trip covered towns like Kilarny,
Kilbush, Blarney, and Cork, certainly places many have heard of when
talking about Ireland. There
are beautiful cliffs which drop off 150 feet
down to the sea, and large hills surrounded by green pastures.
There was
also a round of golf with a caddie who kept calling them “lads” (there was
sleet pelting them and no golf carts), and even a
tour of the home of
Guinness Beer.
Their trip was sort of on the “freelance” side. That is to
say, they had no reservations and had decided to just play it by ear and
see
where the day would take them. Their stays were mostly in very quaint bed and breakfasts, all which included their own bathroom. This
surprised me, because in pictures, Irish towns look old and Bob said he
didn’t see any new construction.
Then there was the semi-screw up.
It
seems the six men had traveled to the town of Dublin by mass transportation, being a DART train. Up to this point, they had a
large
SUV-type vehicle that they were driving around. Dublin looked like too much
traffic for them, thus the train travel.
It was a wonderful day of touring
cathedrals (and I believe a few pubs) in Dublin. After dinner the guys
realized that they had missed
the last train back to Malehide, where they
had been staying. So, they started looking for a place to sleep and their
best bet turned
out to be a hostel.
That included a small 10x12 room
with three bunk beds — one little metal bed for each person — and a very
tiny bathroom. The cost was 18
Euros per person, which is I believe about
$30 each. Then there was the rental of towels and soap, and the purchase
(not rental) of
toilet paper. This was not a cheap night and the
accommodations were meager, to say the least. In the morning they put on
their same
clothes and had a quick breakfast, then got on the first train
out of town with quite a night to talk about.
Of course, the highlight
of the whole tour was when the family descended on the home in the area of
Glannagoal, near Rathcormack,
where Maurice Cotter grew up in the late
1800s. It had been built of the typical light gray stone, the same type of
construction as many
buildings in Ireland. Over the years the stone had
been covered with stucco.
The home remained in the family until just a
few years ago. Now it sits vacant, so the Cotters made their way in to look
around at the
small five-room home (one tiny bath) which at one time housed
a husband and wife and 13 children.
Even though it rained every day, Bob
said, on the good side, every day they saw a rainbow. It was a trip of a
lifetime and one that the
Cotter boys can tell their children
about.
(Melanie Behrens - melb@imetweb.net)
11/13/09
A possible TV series?
Jarrod Zimmerman (MHS class of ‘05) now lives in
Chicago since his graduation from Northwestern University. He works as a
web designer
to pay his major bills and is also an actor, probably his
first love.
At Northwestern he met three guys, also actors, Alan Schmuckler, Michael Mahler and Blake Silver. Jarrod and two of the three, Alan
and
Michael, stayed in Chicago and Blake relocated to Los Angeles.
In late 2008,
the Chicago trio concocted the idea of writing a web series titled
“Boyfred” about several young men in their 20s living
in Chicago. The theme
of the show is how to stay connected using 21st century technology.
They
gathered together $6,000 to pay for production of this 15 minute event,
then they contacted their friend Blake in Los Angeles to join
them. He
served as director and the Chicago boys were the stars.
This was to be the
beginning of a web series, but was brought to the attention of well-known
producer Thomas Schlamme. Last month they all
met with Schlamme, who is a
very big name and whose help would be important. He liked the production
and saw it as a possible ABC
comedy series. Original music written by part
of this group will also be featured in the comedy series, but not in the
traditional musical
production sense.
The four young men now have an
agent (who convinced them in the first place to pitch this as a TV series)
and are writing the script. There
is some pay for them at this point, and
the writers will be submitting it in December to be considered for a pilot
on ABC. It
could be a future product of Sony Pictures television. They
should know by January if it will be accepted and then the fun could
really
start.
Jarrod told me that wherever this project goes, they have
met amazing people and feel that they might have their foot in the door
for
future projects.
She’s in print
Local resident Tessa Floehr is a
teacher, mother and now a published author. She has had several recipes
published, including some from
her childhood. She loves to bake and has
entered several contests where the winner could receive as much as $1
million for original
recipes. Unfortunately she didn’t win any of those,
but still wanted to get her original recipes into print. She researched
opportunities
and the Gooseberry Patch was to be her venue.
This is a
recipe book founded in 1984 by two mothers from Delaware, Ohio. They wanted
a business which would allow them to stay home and sell their cookbooks at
retailers throughout the United States as well as on their company web
site, www.gooseberrypatch.com.
Tessa’s
recipe for raspberry-marshmallow (two of her favorite ingredients) cookie
pizza can be found in the latest addition of “101
Christmas Recipes.”
Desserts are her favorite creations and she has experimented with different
versions on husband, Eric, and daughters,
Amelia and Sophia.
So, while
her day job is as a teacher at Dublin Coffman High School (physical
science), her future may include more recipes in print.
Look for this and
other recipes from the cookbook in Mel’s Favorite Fare on Thursdays in the
J-T.
Shared anagrams
An anagram is rearrangement of one word or phrase
using the same letters to form another word or phrase. Recently a friend
shared some
good ones with me.
1. Presbyterian - best in prayer
2.
Astronomer - moon starer
3. The eyes - they see
4. The Morse Code - here
come dots
5. Dormitory - dirty room
6. Snooze alarms - alas no more
Zs
7. The earthquakes - that queer shake
8. Election results - lies! let’s
recount
(Melanie Behrens - melb@imetweb.net)
11/6/09
Home from Baghdad
He’s a 2006 graduate of Marysville High School and was a
champion wrestler there — state qualifier at 135 pounds. Ryan Hopkins
thought
he might like to be a policeman. He’s been sidetracked a little,
but still has that eventual goal. He is now known as Airman First Class
Hopkins of the United States Air Force and his home base is in Tucson,
Ariz.
After high school Ryan moved to New Orleans with his brother and there he trained in mixed martial arts. But when he came back to
Ohio,
he joined the U.S. Air Force. That was in January of 2008 and nearly two
years later he has seen a lot.
His first preference as a specialty in the Air
Force was to be part of a special forces unit, but he was sidetracked into
something they
need a lot more — an operator of heavy machinery in the
construction end of the Air Force.
The location where the construction
was needed was Baghdad, Iraq, and Ryan has just returned from seven months
in that part of the world.
There, he was in a secure base (they rarely left
it) surrounded by crumbling stone and barbed wire. The “dirt boys” as they
are known
as, helped build a $1.5 million hospital for Americans. He
explained that the U.S. has turned over operation of most everything to
the
Iraqi forces including their hospitals that we used. Now we have to have our own, and when we pull out, this will probably be theirs, too.
It
was hot — well over 100 degrees — during the construction time of only 90
days to build the hospital. Fortunately, he was not required
to wear a
helmet or a bulletproof jacket while he was running bulldozers.
It was a
long trip from the U.S. to his base in Iraq, some 16 hours and two stops on
what you would call a regular airline. Then once
landing in Qatar, the
troops were loaded on board a C130 aircraft where the passengers ride in
cargo nets for the 2 1/2 hour rough trip
to Baghdad. Ryan said the plane
also comes down to land very quickly. There’s none of the hesitation of a
passenger airline. It’s so they
can’t be shot down. That’s
reassuring!
When I asked if he felt safe, he nodded, but said that mortars
were a common occurrence and you’d better run fast when you hear the alarm
sounded. Apparently this alarm gave them enough time to find shelter. He also explained that Iraqi insurgents fire these mortars, well, that is, they get them ready to go. Then they often hire local farmers who need money to go in and set them off, videotaping themselves as proof they did the job. Then the videotape is
taken back to the insurgents and the locals are paid their money. So, as
Ryan pointed out, it’s always dangerous to see an Iraqi taking videos. It
usually means trouble.
Even though they shared a base with the Iraqi Army,
the two groups were separated and never went to the other side, except on
one
special occasion while Ryan was building a patio for the Iraqi special forces. Then they were invited to eat with the Iraqis. Many
were friendly and spoke English, but other locals they met wanted no part of the U.S.
The hazard pay was a good, but Ryan is home now on
leave. He will be heading back to Tucson for about six to eight months and
then will
return to the Middle East, probably to Afghanistan.
This will
be a different kind of duty for him. Ryan says all equipment and materials
will have to be shipped over there because,
unlike Iraq, most things would
not be available for construction in that country.
He’s only 21 and has
already seen more than most of us. When he is finished with the Air Force
in about four more years, he plans to
take advantage of the college
education that his service can provide him. Then maybe he’ll go back to
Tucson to be a cop!
(Melanie Behrens - melb@imetweb.net)
10/30/09
Witches are here ... almost
Tomorrow is the day of witches, goblins, vampires
and ghosts. It is the day many children wait for. It is Halloween.
Residents, get your
candy ready at the front door.
While we will be
feeding neighborhood children, that’s not the way the holiday
began.
Halloween’s origins date back to the ancient Celtic festival of Samhain (pronounced sow-in). The Celts, who lived 2,000 years ago in
the area that is now Ireland, United Kingdom, and northern France, celebrated their new year on Nov. 1. This day marked the end of
summer
— the harvest and beginning of dark, cold winter, a time of year that was
often associated with human death.
Celts believed that on the night before
the new year, the boundary between the worlds of the living and the dead
became blurred. On the
night of Oct. 31, they celebrated Samhain, when it
was believed that the ghosts of the dead returned to earth. In addition to
causing
trouble and damaging crops, Celts thought that the presence of spirits made it easier for the Druids, or Celtic priests, to make
predictions about the future.
They were a people entirely dependent on
the volatile natural world. These prophecies were an important source of
comfort and direction
during the long, dark winter. To commemorate the
event, Druids built huge sacred bonfires, where people gathered to burn
crops and animals
as sacrifices to the Celtic deities.
During the
celebration, Celts wore costumes, typically consisting of animal heads and
skins, and attempted to tell each other’s fortunes.
When the celebration
was over, they re-lit their hearth fires, which they had extinguished
earlier that evening, from the sacred bonfire
to help protect them during
the coming winter.
By 43 A.D., Romans had conquered the majority of Celtic
territory. In the course of the 400 years that they ruled Celtic lands,
two
festivals of Roman origin were combined with the traditional Celtic celebration of Samhain.
The first was Feralia, a day in late October when
Romans traditionally commemorated the passing of the dead. The second was
a
day to honor Pomona, the Roman goddess of fruit and trees. The symbol of Pomona is the apple and the incorporation of this celebration into
Samhain probably explains the tradition of “bobbing” for apples that is
practiced today on Halloween.
By the 800s, the influence of Christianity had
spread into Celtic lands. In the seventh century, Pope Boniface IV
designated Nov. 1 All
Saints’ Day, a time to honor saints and martyrs. It
is widely believed today that the pope was attempting to replace the
Celtic
festival of the dead with a related, but church-sanctioned,
holiday. The celebration was also called All-hallows or All-hallowmas
(from
Middle English Alholowmesse meaning All Saints’ Day). The night before, the night of Samhain, began to be called All-hallows Eve and,
eventually, Halloween.
Thus, our children dress in garb remembering the
scariest of times and say “Trick or treat!” That used to mean, give us
something tasty
or we will soap your windows, which often happened to those
not home during beggars night.
Thankfully, the vandalism seems to have
mostly disappeared and the emphasis has switched to loading those small
bodies with calories and
sugar. OK, it’s only one day a year, so children
brush your teeth well!
(Melanie Behrens - melb@metweb.net)
10/23/09
Thoughts on the dollar
The word dollar can mean a monetary system covering a
large scope of money or it can mean just $1 that you have in your pocket
which
unfortunately doesn’t buy much these days. But for decades, the dollar has been the world’s most widely used currency.
Crude oil and many
commodities are priced in dollars. Business deals around the world are done
in dollars. Now the Chinese and Russians
are leading the charge to change
the world economic base by possibly creating a new currency, leaving our
dollar behind.
Even though I’m not an economist, this could be very bad for
the U.S. China holds over $1 trillion in U.S. debt and is undoubtedly
worried
about our future, especially in light of the shaky economy of the past year. But before we get too excited about the dollar’s
elimination, many world economists have said this can’t happen quickly
and that it’s just saber–rattling by the Chinese.
All that is good news and I
won’t stay awake worrying about the change for now.
The discussion about
the dollar in general leads me to share the following information sent to
me by Ron Wietelmann specifically about
the one dollar bill:
We take
those ones for granted since they honestly don’t buy much anymore by
themselves. I rarely look closely at the bills in my
wallet, but here is an
overview of the one dollar bill designed and printed in 1957.
This
so-called paper money is in fact a cotton and linen blend, with red and
blue minute silk fibers running through it. It is actually
material. We’ve
all washed it, usually by mistake, without it falling apart. A special
blend of ink is used, the content of which we will
never know. It is
overprinted with symbols and then it is starched to make it water resistant
and pressed to give it that nice crisp look.
Now for a short tour of the
bill: On the front of the bill, is the United States Treasury Seal. On top
is the scales for a balanced
budget (that idea is long gone). In the center
there is a carpenter’s square, a tool used for an even cut. Underneath is
the key to the
United States Treasury. That’s all pretty easy to figure
out, but what is on the back of that dollar bill is more
involved.
Turning the bill over, you will see two circles. Both circles, together, comprise the Great Seal of the United States. The First
Continental Congress requested that Benjamin Franklin and a group of men come up with a seal. It took them four years to accomplish this
task and another two years to get it approved.
In the left-hand circle,
there is a pyramid. Inside the capstone is the all-seeing eye, an ancient
symbol for divinity. It was Franklin’s
belief that one man couldn’t do it
alone, but a group of men, with the help of God, could do anything. “IN GOD
WE TRUST” is on this
currency. At the base of the pyramid is the Roman
numeral for 1776.
On the right-hand circle is the seal at every National
Cemetery in the United States. Slightly modified, it is the seal of the
President
of the United States, and is always visible whenever he
speaks.
The Bald Eagle was selected as a symbol for victory for two reasons: First, it is not afraid of a storm; it is strong and smart enough to
soar above it. Second, it wears no material crown. We had just broken from the King of England. Also, notice the shield is unsupported
meaning the country can now stand on its own.
Above the eagle, there
are 13 stars, representing the 13 original colonies and any clouds of
misunderstanding rolling away. Notice what
the eagle holds in its talons —
an olive branch and arrows. This country wants peace, but we will never be
afraid to fight to preserve
it.
The number 13 has been lucky for the
U.S. We had 13 original colonies, representatives of 13 states as signers
of the Declaration
of Independence and 13 stripes on our flag. Along with
the 13 stars above the eagle on the dollar, there are 13 bars on that
shield, 13
leaves on the olive branch and if you look closely, 13
arrows.
From the thoughtful beginning of the design of the dollar bill has followed, a wonderful, free country, which is experiencing a change,
possibly economically and philosophically. I pray the freedoms we experience will not be taken away!
Random thoughts
How are you
supposed to fold a fitted sheet?
I would rather try to carry 10 plastic
grocery bags in each hand than make two trips to bring my groceries
in.
Was learning cursive really necessary?
“Do not machine wash or tumble
dry” means I will never wash this item — ever.
(Melanie Behrens - melb@imetweb.net)
10/16/09
A busy family weekend
Their daughters are queen material, one for sure and
the other highly portbable. Tom and Kim Benedict Barrick (FHS class of ‘80)
are the
parents and here’s their pleasant situation.Daughter Logan has
already won the title of homecoming queen of Wheelersburg High School in
southern Ohio. It’s located near Portsmouth. She will preside over the
festivities, that is, football game and dance tonight. Her grandparents are
longtime Union County residents Dale and Evelyn Benedict.The reason
their activities will be very busy this week is because
their oldest
daughter, Kayla, is also vying for a similar title at Eastern Kentucky
University in Richmond, Ky. the next day. She is a sophomore.
Saturday
morning there will be a homecoming parade and then she will go through
interviews as a part of the last minute selection process — then the queen
announcement and the 3 p.m. football game.
Because these events are going on
hundreds of miles apart, the race is on to attend both functions and then
there are the expenses that
Kim (guidance counselor at Wheelersburg H.S.)
and Tom (basketball coach at Wheelersburg H.S.) have, getting gowns,
dresses, flowers and
accessories. But they will stay up late for Logan’s
day and get up early to make the trip to Richmond on Saturday morning to
support Kayla.
The girls’ grandparents, Dale and Evelyn, have been an
important part of the Union County area for many years. Dale, a retired
Scotts
employee after 23 years, is a bee keeper. He has 30 hives and in
each are 50,000-70,000 bees. His products are sold at the Farmer’s Market
in Marysville. Evelyn has owned and operated Benedict Hardware in North
Lewisburg for 30 years.
Of course, they will be part of the entourage
supporting their granddaughters this weekend.
DWTS area connection
If
you are a fan of “Dancing with the Stars” on ABC television you may have
noticed cute Louie Vito, who is a professional snowboarder
and in the
competition as a would-be dancer. He is a native of Bellefontaine,
attending school there through the eighth grade. After
that he went to
Vermont for professional snowboarding school and I guess it has paid off.
His family is still in the Bellefontaine area.
Local fundraisers there have
organized meetings at the Holland theater (with a 20x24 ft. screen) two
times a week to watch Louie perform, and then for the results show, to see
if he gets to stay on the program. There is a charge each night and some
200 people attend most events. The funds ($5,000 so far) will be used for
the renovation of the theater and the gathering is to ensure that Louie
gets local voting support done by phone.
As I have watched the show,
Louie has been up and down in his performances. This week he survived the
cut and will go on again next week on Monday evening.Thanks to the
Bellefontaine Examiner for the information.
Random Thoughts
1. Nothing
is more disgusting than that moment during an argument when you realize
you're wrong.
2. MapQuest really needs to start its directions on #5. I’m
pretty sure I know how to get out of my neighborhood.
3. I totally
take back all those times I didn't want to nap when I was
younger.
(Melanie Behrens - melb@imetweb.net)
10/9/09
Ten years — but who’s counting
Ten years goes by very quickly and I have been
the one doing the counting. That’s how long I’ve been writing this column —
that means 520 stories over the last 10 years. I’ve not taken one day off in
all that time, not through illness or travel out of town or the
consideration that it’s just too hard to work for your husband ...
sometimes.
The way this began is a story in itself. First you should know I’m
a college-trained dental hygienist and never did any professional writing.
When society editor Clara Miller retired from the Journal-Tribune, so
did the column she wrote for many years called “Off the Hook.”
There were
several years when this column did not appear and the publisher saw that it
created a void. He was anxious to get it going again. Since he happens to be
my husband, Dan, I can say that I watched him try to find someone to write
the column. I witnessed 20 or more people say no, so I thought maybe this
was a place for me.
I offered my services several times telling him that I
thought I could do it. He realized we would be hard pressed to work together
and also questioned whether I had any writing ability. That might have been
correct, at least at first.
Finally he turned to me one day and offered
to give me a chance saying, “let’s see how it goes!” It was quite rocky in
the beginning. He edited most everything I wrote and I was insulted. He
never gave me credit for actually doing some writing on my own during my
college days, but it was not in the journalistic style. He insisted I learn
to do it that way.
Then, of course, there were some modifications I wanted to
make to the style of the column. For instance, I wanted to use pictures
occasionally and he originally refused. But I persisted, and went ahead to
use pictures of our students teaching overseas, servicemen in Iraq and
people traveling abroad. Generally they were well accepted.
Then there
was a time where I wanted to include a story about myself. He said, “This
column is not about you!” Oh, yes, I wasn’t supposed to use quotes
either.
One of my favorite stories is when the ATM machine ate my card and I
had to “duke it out” with the bank to get it back immediately instead of 10
days later. Many people could identify with that story.
Then there was
the time that I was in a carwash in my friend’s car and she got out in the
middle of the cycle. Her car was severely damaged because the carwash arm
hit it. I was frozen in my seat and was no help at all! Four years later,
people are still asking me about her.
Personal stories were not accepted at
first, because, according to the old style, the column was not about the
author and pictures weren’t used. You can imagine how it was last August
when I wanted to do a story about me flying in a hot air balloon in
conjunction with the All Ohio Balloon Fest in Marysville. That involved not
only an article about me, but also the use of a picture of me in the
balloon.
Working with my editor/husband has settled into much more of a
routine now, even though we occasionally have to have a — let's call it
meaningful — discussion about some aspect of the column. There have been
times when he has saved me with his editing and for that, I’m
grateful.
For his part, I believe he can now breathe a little more easily as
I submit each column, and I hope to say I have learned something over all
this time — that is, 520 times.
I’m always looking for good story, so if
you have one, please contact me.
Church choir to appear on national TV
The
First English Lutheran Church Chancel Choir will appear on ABC television
Sunday, Oct. 11 at 1:30 p.m. during the airing of “TOGETHER: The Hendrick
Motorsports Story.”
First English Lutheran Church is located at 687 London
Ave., on the corner of London Avenue and Stocksdale Drive in
Marysville.
10/2/09
John Merriman, alias the closer
He is a 1955 graduate of Marysville High
School and has spent all of his working life as a teacher, principal and
student mentor. That spans more than 50 years in education. John Merriman
has touched the lives of thousands of students and began as an elementary
school teacher. That was never how he intended to spend his life.
As he
graduated from high school, he realized he would probably also never be
able to go to college because the money wasn’t there. Then the cadet
program came into his life. It involved choosing two students from each
county in the state to receive a full scholarship at a college in Ohio
(majoring in education). Their repayment was to agree to teach for three
years in the state.
John was one of those selected and chose Otterbein
College. After two years in education, he was allowed to go into the
classroom as long as he continued to finish his degree. That’s what he did
and began teaching in 1957. Later he graduated from Otterbein with a
bachelor’s degree and from Ohio State University with a master’s in
education.
His early years were in the Richwood Local School District and
the first year, 1957, he was paid $3,400. It seems that probably only by coincidence John worked at many schools which closed (some even
demolished) either right after he was there or in the following years.
One of the first schools to go was the elementary school at Pharisburg.
John was actually administrator of the Leesburg-Magnetic School District,
which had students from K-8. The school building was just being constructed
when John came to that job and so the students had to attend the Pharisburg
School until the Leesburg-Magnetic school was done. John chose the brick,
colors and the furniture for that building.
It was in the Pharisburg
building that John proposed to his wife, Sharon, who was helping him pack
books to move to the new Magnetic building. Isn't that romantic?
When
the Leesburg-Magnetic school opened in 1962, the Pharisburg school was then
torn down making it John’s first closure. The Leesburg-Magnetic building
was just demolished this summer and that’s what brought this whole story to
light. John and Sharon went to the school to retrieve a brick remembering
that he helped build the school about 47 years ago. School number two is
gone now.
John was a teaching principal from 1962 to ‘68, but during that
time even with his coaching (football, basketball and tennis) he earned
less than $9,000 a year. Then he moved on to be principal at Claibourne
Elementary in Richwood. He said that those were very difficult times to
find teachers and substitutes. He chided, you
could work as a sub if you
were breathing!
He was in Claibourne for school year 1968-69. The building
has since been demolished. That makes it closure number three.
For two
years, still working in the North Union District, John was principal of
three schools at one time (what a guy!) — Magnetic, Jackson and Byhalia. We
already mentioned that Magnetic (Leesburg) is gone. Now Byhalia is also
gone — closing number five. During this time, York Center School, which was
also a part of North Union, was closed. John actually never worked at York
Center, but was responsible for moving all its furniture into his charge of
the three other schools just before it was closed. School number six, York Center, is no longer there.
In 1971, John went to the Fairbanks School
District. At this time, his salary was clear up to $13,000. He was
principal of Watkins Elementary and Unionville Center. Both are closed at
this time. That makes number seven and eight.
For three years, John
served as high school principal at Upper Scioto Valley in McGuffey, Ohio.
It was an experience he cherishes. His entire school population, grades
eight through 12, was only about 300 students. But he loved the work even
though it was a long drive. The school is located near Ada, so he applied
at Marysville to actually work where he lived.
He was hired there in
1996 and was placed at East Elementary where he served for many years. Of
course, that school is now closed — that would be school number
nine.
John now serves as attendance officer at Marysville High School and
it seems the perfect job for him. Tennis is his sport and he still acts
as assistant coach for both boys and girls teams.
Because he’s been in
education for more than 50 years, he’s seen it all and is full of
compassion for his students. He’s retired and rehired, so now works about
10 hours a week. After this story, we may all have to refer to John as “the
closer.”
9/25/09
Jenna sees the world ... again!
She was part of the class of 2005 at
Marysville High School, a recent graduate (cum laude)) of the University of
Cincinnati, and already a seasoned world traveler. At Cincinnati, Jenna
Yoder received a BA degree in marketing and a double minor in international
business and Spanish. That sounds like success in the making.
Unlike
many college graduates in these times, Jenna already has a job. She is
currently learning to be a clinical training resident with a Johnson &
Johnson company, Ethicon Endo-Surgery. Her eventual career path is headed
toward medical sales, but she will be in Cincinnati for the year developing
clinical knowledge.
Earlier this year she spent a term in Spain and I did
some stories about her adventures there. To make sure her international
experience
was varied she returned from China this summer just in time to
graduate.
Jenna says of her recent trip: “My decision to go to China was to
fulfill my international business degree requirements. Just as I did
with Spain, I took the opportunity to travel and receive school credit
as well. China’s climate was hot and humid! I only saw the sun a handful of
days due to the intense smog.”
“Living conditions in China are mixed. Because
it is a developing country, you see anything from shacks to brand new
high-rise condominiums. I stayed in a hotel the whole time. Each was
affiliated with the universities we visited in each location. Class
lectures about Chinese culture and business practices filled the
days.”
“Not as many people spoke English as I thought and if they did, it
was broken. We usually communicated via hand signs or by pointing to a
picture on a menu. Oddly enough, the one place you could count on someone
speaking fluent English was in McDonald’s or Pizza Hut.”
Her trip spanned
three weeks traveling to Beijing, Guangzhou, and Chengdu. In the mornings
there was a lecture at the host university and then they would head off to
either business visits (American companies such as P&G and J&J) or
sightseeing. The biggest surprise for Jenna was the fact that there are so
many people and no matter where she went or what time of day it was, she
was never alone.
Jenna continues: “The pollution was pretty bad, especially
in Beijing, and at times it was hard to breathe! The people though are truly what make China. They are very kind hearted and were so welcoming. Sometimes I felt like a celebrity because they would ask to
take our picture. In one instance, a Chinese woman just handed her baby to
one student in my group without even asking and then proceeded to take a
handful of pictures.”
“Another interesting and somewhat shocking cultural
difference in China is that babies do not wear diapers. Most children wear
split pants and use the bathroom where needed. This of course means the bathroom is just about anywhere.”
Guangzhou is the second largest city in
China and has grown into one of the biggest industrial marketplaces. Here,
the students visited Beauty Star which is the largest plastic bottle
manufacturer in China. Most of the time spent was in class lectures at
Jinan University. Chengdu was her final and favorite destination.
Jenna
said: “The city was not nearly as big as Beijing, but it offered a lot of
culture and great food! The food normally served in this region is very
spicy and typically a numbing spice, called flower pepper, is used. Your
whole mouth truly goes numb and it feels like you just left the dentist.
Traditional Chinese food is some of the best food I have ever had. I was a
little adventurous at times though and did try donkey, pigeon, and a silk
worm. But no worries, no dog or cat were served!”
Near Chengdu, the
students took a day trip to the city of Han Wang, which sat near the fault
line connected with last year’s 8.0 earthquake that completely shook the
entire Sichuan Province. Jenna said she was shocked to see the city still
in rubble; as if the earthquake had just happened the day before. However,
the positive attitude among the people in the Sichuan Province in general
was truly inspiring.
When I asked about the seemingly grueling trip just
to get there, she said going over was a breeze, but coming back was a
different story. She was really sick. The she added, “I guess that’s what I
get for eating a worm!”
Now off to the real world of business and
supporting herself!
9/18/09
Pastor Charles Runion
He was a member of the Marysville
High School class of 1984 and has gone on to become a full-time pastor and
recently an author. Charles Runion has taken on the job as pastor at the
Urbana Church of Christ in Christian Union and currently lives in
Bellefontaine. That’s necessary because he still has children in high
school there. His wife, Paula, is also the church secretary at their new
assignment. He’s only been on the job for about a month, but is already
quite excited about his new church.
For 15 years, Charles had been
pastor of the Monroe Community Church, an independent church located in
Logan County. It was his first call after being ordained in 1994.
The
son of Don and Eileen Runion of Marysville, he grew up on Weaver Road and
at 14 began attending Raymond’s Church of Christ in Christian Union. At
about that time he was “born again,” which is a requirement to be baptized
in that church. His baptism took place several years later.
The
denomination has a membership of approximately 17,000 in the United States
and extends to the West Indies. The Church of the Nazarene is its sister
church in Marysville.
Charles says his denomination demands much of its
members and that includes no gambling, smoking or drinking. Members can be
expelled for such behavior. One of 11 children, he says he was raised with
a strong sense of right and wrong.
After high school, he found himself
working at Honda, going to college at Circleville Bible College and
employed as youth pastor at the Bellefontaine Church of Christ in Christian
Union. During this time he married and had three children, and as a father
could only go to college on a part-time basis. Later he would also teach in
the Bellefontaine schools and coach his children in school
sports.
Finally he graduated and went on to receive his master’s degree from
Ashland Theological Seminary, which is run by the Church of the
Brethren. That degree in church history required Charles to do a
written project, which has eventually evolved into his book titled
“Living Legacies.” It is a history of the Church of Christ in Christian
Union from its organization in 1909 to present day. One thousand copies
were printed and are sold mainly to members of the denomination, serving as
a history of the church.
There’s a great energy about Charles and a pride in
his church. His next adventure may be to continue his studies for a Ph.D.
He strikes me as a man who has to stay busy!
A perfect Festifair
It
was an event that had all the markings of a huge success. I am referring to
the Festifair in downtown Marysville last Saturday.
I have been to many of
them over the years, but I’m sure this was one of the most well attended.
That was not only due to the absolutely perfect weather, but also to the
hard work that went into its planning.
There were many quality artisans
displaying their wares and it looked as though they were all doing a good
business. We acknowledge the organizers as it was a great
event.
9/11/09
50 years of snipping
He is a husband and father, an outdoorsman who loves to
fish and a man who has been cutting hair as a barber in Marysville for 50
years. Rex Dennis grew up in Delaware County on a little stretch of land
called Dennis Point, a place his father purchased in 1938. It’s a spot
which included a grocery store, a gas station, and a barber shop where his
father worked. The family, which included three sons, lived
upstairs.
Barbering was apparently in the blood of the Dennis family.
Herman, Rex’s father, worked in the rubber mills of Akron. He married in
1934 and about that same time became a barber. In those days, all one had
to do was work as an apprentice to get a license.
In 1935, Herman and his
wife started on their way to San Diego. He worked as a barber across the
country. He would stop and work a few months in one town and then they
would have enough money to move on to the next town. They stayed in San
Diego for several years and after deciding the weather was just too perfect
there, they worked their way back across the country and eventually ended
at what was to be known as Dennis Point.
Rex was the youngest child and
was born in 1940. He graduated from Scioto Valley High School — later
called Buckeye Valley — in 1958.
Rex wanted to be a barber also so he headed
off to the Columbus School of Barbering also known as the Andrew School. He
had recently decided not to be a forest ranger, and after 11 1/2 months and
1,800 hours of training, he was ready to go to work.
Rex had a friend
named Don Stout (also from Ostrander) who was already a barber in
Marysville and assistant fire chief at the same time. Don had two barber
chairs at the corner of W. Fifth and Court Sts. so Rex went to work with
him. In 1960, Rex took over the shop and in 1961 began working with Keith
Greer.
In those days, a haircut was only $1.25. Now they do the same thing
for $13. Flat tops and crew cuts were the favorite. They required a lot
of maintenance, but then the years of the Beatles came to haunt barbers.
Everyone was letting their hair grow and so barbers were just waiting for
when their customers needed a trim job. Rex said he was grateful when those
styles were gone.
It appears that the only good thing about that time for
barbers was that there was a lot less hair to sweep up. When I was there
talking to Rex, there was a mound of it on the floor — a perpetual problem
in his business now!
About 20 years ago Rex’s son, Steve, joined him in
the barbershop. They are now located on S. Main St. for just a few more
days. In fact, the shop will be closing on Sept. 19.
Not only have there
been changes in hair styles over the years, but also Rex has lived through
the personal problems of his customers and sometimes even acts as a
counselor. He does not cut women’s hair and they’re rarely seen in the
shop. He said one of the nicest things has been the regular meetings with
his customers, some of whom have been with him for all those 50 years. He
said that just when you haven’t seen them for awhile, there they are — they
must need a haircut. It’s
been a good relationship and he’s thankful for
this town which has been good to him.
Rex said there are two things you
should not talk about in the barbershop — one is politics, the other is
religion. But many of the town issues are hot topics.
Now that he’s put
in his 50 years, Rex plans to be a much more active fisherman. His wife
Susan is retired, too. Rex is also a woodworker and there’s much evidence
of it as you enter his shop.
He owned the building, which also houses Salon
122, a beauty shop owned by Kerri Alexander Duncan. She has been his renter
and just purchased the entire place. She plans to expand her beauty shop
into the area that has housed Rex’s barbershop for many years.
It’s the
end of an era for Marysville and for Rex Dennis. We wish him a happy and
healthy retirement!
9/4/09
The crime, the trial, the memories
The crime took place in 1997 involving
India and Cody Smith of Urbana, who were being cared for by their
stepfather, Kevin Neal, while their mom worked. Kevin reported that the
children disappeared from the front yard of their home while he was doing
laundry. The children were eventually found murdered and their discovery
was due to help from the Marysville lab, Seed Technology, owned at that
time by Dale Kern, now deceased. Anne Daniel was an employee and proved to
be a valuable witness in the murder trial.
This case will now be featured
on the Discovery Channel Monday at 10 p.m. titled “Forensics, You Decide.”
Anne will be a part of the TV show and shares with us some of what she
remembers from the case:
“In July of 1997, I received a call from BCI in
London telling me the agency had gotten my name and Seed Tech's from the
Ohio Dept. of Agriculture (we had been doing state work for several years
and I was their point of contact). We were asked to close the lab and wait
for one of their people to bring something they wanted us to examine. Dale Kern and myself were asked to look at seeds. We were not told what
case they were connected with but they wanted us to identify them and to
document our findings as well as to advise where these particular seeds
might be found.”
Anne said they had seen these seeds many times. They were
Gallium Aparine (Bedstraw) and we discovered a few days later that it had
to do with the disappearance of the Smith children from Urbana who everyone was looking for at that time. How did this fit into the murder
case? It seems some of those seeds had been found on the pants of the
suspect, Kevin Neal, and were later also discovered at the makeshift grave
site, which contained the remains of the murdered children in Urbana. Anne,
with the help of Bob Hesson (specialty seed man at Scotts), was able to
identify the seeds at the grave site and since a murder weapon was never
found, this circumstantial evidence became crucial to the case.
Anne
remembers when they went to the gravesite. “We could see the outline of the
shallow grave that had the form of the two bodies side by side and we could
not find the plant. I got down on my knees and was looking through the
weeds that had been stamped down by workers that night and when I stood up,
Mel (her husband) said to look at what is sticking to your pant leg. I had
on white knit knee pants and, sure enough, there was the bedstraw.”
“Bob
and I went back to the lab and completed a written report and faxed it back
to the sheriff's office in Urbana. Later in September, Bob and I were asked
to go out to the location where the children lived and the last place where
they were to have been. We were to completely walk the fence rows and
weeded area, and catalog every plant we found and where it was located. We
were specifically looking for bedstraw. We did not find any in the over 100
seeds we found. We worked with the prosecutor from Champaign County over
the next couple of years.”
“The trial for Kevin started on May 1, 2000,
and at that time I was asked to go back to the grave site and see if we
could still find the seeds. Sure enough bedstraw was still there. We then
were asked to return to the home where the children lived and found
bedstraw in a few moist overgrown areas. Then it was stated by the defense
(during the trial) that we missed it the first time we were there years
before and that could explain the seeds on the defendant’s pants,
because they were at his home, too. Bob and I both knew we did not and
remembered that some plants, which were annual could become biennial under
certain circumstances, particularly due to weather. We noted according to
records it was drier in 1997 (low plants - no seeds) and wetter in 2000
(big plants – seeds everywhere). This implied the seeds on his pants came
only from the site where he disposed of the children’s bodies and
implicated him enough to get a long prison sentence.
Anne said, “I was
on the witness stand for a total of 11 hours over a two-day period and the
defense attorney tried everything he could to break me down. However, as I
had been taught by Dale Kern, if you can back your findings with more than
one source (both the late Dr. Marvin Twigg for plant growth and the Urbana
Airport weather center for conditions) then you should not let anyone make
you back down. As there was never any weapon or cause of death determined,
officials said that our work was significant in being able to get a guilty verdict for two life sentences and abuse of corpse.”
You can hear more
about this story Monday, Sept. 7, 10 p.m. on the Discovery
channel.
8/28/09
In the middle of a war
I’m sure you know that at this time in our history,
many men and women in the military service are fighting to protect our
freedoms and safety. They serve in the war zones of Iraq and Afghanistan. Sometimes it is quite surprising to me to think that even though we are
many years past the military draft, young Americans continue to volunteer
to serve our country in this way when they could be relatively safe at
home. We should be thankful every day for their efforts.
Eric Thrush
(MHS class of ‘01 and Capital University graduate with a degree in history)
is part of one of those wars now. He is in the U.S. Army stationed in
Afghanistan. He has been adopted by a Marysville Brownie Troop and
represents our part of the world in that craziness of the Middle East. As
Eric says, it is almost a land where time stood still.
I have also read
that most of Afghanistan is illiterate. I asked him to tell us what it’s
like to be there. It’s obvious that his time on the Internet is very
limited now, but here is some of what he has said recently:
“I’m in
Military Intelligence, so my job is to talk with the Afghan people and find
out where the bad guys are located. That is basically breaking it down to
the lowest level. I often tell people to watch the ‘Body of Lies’ movie and
my job is what Leonardo Dicaprio does in the movie. It definitely has
Hollywood glamour in it, and he is in the CIA, but it’s essentially the
same thing.”
“I moved to a new base because my team’s capabilities are needed
in a different area. I am now up in the area of the Korengal Valley. The
local people are poor and dirty. It really is like stepping back in
time a couple of hundred years. For the most part, they appreciate what
we are trying to accomplish in their country. The elections are coming up
over here (now actually completed last week but results are slow) and there
are political posters everywhere you look.”
“Most of the locals are farmers.
Being from Marysville, I was surprised to see how well they grow corn over
here. Every once in a while, you will see a tractor, but most of the work
is done by hand.”
“The local food is actually very good as well. It mainly
consists of rice, bread and goat meat. They do have cows as well, though.
They also have an abundance of watermelons and mangos that are excellent. The temperatures usually gets to be around 120-130 degrees.”
“My camp has
the basic necessities. Some of the guys have beds, but I have a cot with a
mattress on top of it. It’s not too bad and the room has an air
conditioner, so I can’t complain. I don’t have any ‘regular’ hours, so I
pretty much make my own schedule and work whenever I’m needed. Some days
are slow and some I work more than anyone else on the base, I think. I’ve
picked up a little bit of the language — the basics I guess you could say.
Some people speak Farsi, but the main language is Pashtu.”
“Afghans, for
some reason, absolutely love playing volleyball. I have no idea where this
came from, but every unit of the ANA (Afghan National Army) has a
volleyball court outside in the compound and some of them are actually
pretty good too.”
I hope to have more from him later. Stay safe,
Eric!
8/21/09
Up, up and away
I never thought it was something I needed to do before the
end of my life, like a bucket list. I never thought it would be so quiet
up there and I never thought I would enjoy it so much.
Just a week ago I
was given a rare opportunity to experience flying in a hot air balloon. I
needed a story for this week, so I went. It came in conjunction with the
All Ohio Balloon Fest held at the Union County Airport last Friday and
Saturday evenings.
I was notified early on Friday morning that I would be
flying with Tim Grissom in the Ohio Caverns balloon. The balloons were set
to take off on Friday at about 6:30 p.m., so I arrived a little early
and met Tim and his wife Andrea (who would also be coming along) as they were preparing the balloon for launch. They live in West Liberty and he is the manager of Ohio Caverns, thus the name on his three-year-old balloon. Tim has been flying for that many years. He seemed
extremely careful and gave me a great ride.
The balloonist needs at least
two other people to help him as part of the ground crew, but this evening
there were two additional people, Tim’s father and his friend, both from
Tim’s native central Tennessee area.
The main ground crewman is Kent
Amey. He serves as a volunteer just because he enjoys the excitement of
helping launch the balloon, driving the chase car and packing up after the
landing. Kent has never ridden in the balloon and appears to have no desire
to do that. Actually Tim’s wife, Andrea, has quite a fear of heights so in
the three years Tim has had his license she has only been up six times and prefers to help with the ground crew.
You can imagine the
conversation in their house when Tim said he wanted to buy a $40,000
balloon, and she wouldn’t even be able to really enjoy flying in it.
Apparently there was some toy tradeoff and Tim won the discussion.
His
balloon basket will hold five people and up to 2,000 pounds in absolutely
perfect conditions, including temperature and wind. With only three of us,
there was plenty of room inside the basket. We also had a 150-pound propane
tank, which powers inflation of the balloon, also called the envelope. The
acrid smell of the burning propane is a nuisance.
Balloonists are
careful for obvious reasons and every year have a check ride to retain
their license. For the license, there is a written and practical exam. At
that time, the balloon itself (the envelope) is also tested with metal
tools which attempt to tear apart the seams. Andrea says every balloonist
holds his breath while this test is being done because if the balloon
tears, it means buying a new one and that could cost as much as $20,000.
That test could also save their lives because it would show any tendency to
give way under pressure.
Tim’s balloon is made of 1,200 yds. of fabric.
Most balloons will last six to eight years.
It costs balloonists about
$100 an hour to fly on propane gas and that was the length of our trip. Tim
said that after that period of time he is mentally tired because attention
to details for flying is somewhat stressful.
If someone is paying for a
trip, it generally costs about $200 an hour per person mostly because the
insurance is so expensive. Apparently there are only two companies which
provide this type of insurance.
My only question as I entered the
balloon, not too gracefully I might add, was could this thing catch on
fire? Tim explained that the fabric at the opening of the balloon, where
the fire rises to heat the air, is flame resistant and actually melts a
little, rather than burn, if the flame hits it. He guaranteed me the
balloon wouldn’t catch fire. That was my only concern since I’m not afraid
of heights.
I was good to go! Once we were up on this very hot and still
evening it was so amazingly beautiful. We moved very slowly because the
winds were light. We began at the airport and an hour later, after going
over many fields, we landed in the backyard of a house on County Home Rd., east of Waldo Rd. No one was home.
That’s not very far to go in an
hour. I asked Tim if there was ever a problem landing on private property
and he replied that most people are intrigued and excited to see the
balloons come down. Only once did he have a problem with a farmer even
though his landing was not on the crops. If someone is unhappy, the
balloonist always offers to make repairs or compensate them in some
way.
As we rode along, we were maybe 600 feet in the air and we could hear people talking on the ground below us as many drivers pulled their cars
over and got out to watch us fly above them.
People are not afraid of the
balloons, but animals are. Tim explained that if sheep or horses are
spotted, balloonists make every effort to avoid flying right over them. It
seems the noise of the propane burner is unfamiliar and scares them. It
causes animals to run in circles and try to escape, so they are avoided as
a courtesy.
Tim said flying in his own balloon has been one of the most
wonderful things he’s ever done. My thanks to him for a great floating ride
and spectacular landing, the most difficult part. I didn’t even notice
it!
8/13/09
English — our language
I receive lots of thought provoking e-mails each week,
so I am sharing some with you. The subject this time is one of my favorite
things — words (thus my job). The first is from Sandie Weller and deals
with the idiosyncrasies of the English language, which we all deal with
daily.
Idiosyncrasies of the English language —
Atheism is a non-prophet
organization.
If man evolved from monkeys and apes, why do we still
have monkeys and apes?
What if there were no hypothetical questions?
If a
deaf person signs swear words, does his mother wash his hands with
soap?
If someone with multiple personalities threatens to kill himself, is
it considered a hostage situation?
Is there another word for synonym?
If a parsley farmer is sued, can they garnish his wages?
Would a fly without wings be called a walk?
If a turtle doesn’t have a shell, is he
homeless or naked?
Can vegetarians eat animal crackers?
If the police
arrest a mime, do they tell him he has the right to remain silent?
One nice
thing about egotists: They don’t talk about other people.
If you try to
fail, and succeed, which have you done?
Why is there an expiration date on
sour cream?
Can an atheist get insurance against acts of god?
Also — Did
you know: That the words race car spelled backward says race car.
That eat
is the only word that if you take the first letter and move it to the last,
it spells its past tense ate.
More English language things to make you think
from Don Degood.
Aphorism: A short, pointed sentence expressing a wise or
clever observation or a general truth. Some examples are seen below.
The
nicest thing about the future is that it always starts tomorrow.
Money will
buy a fine dog, but only kindness will make him wag his tail.
If you don’t
have a sense of humor, you probably don’t have any sense at all.
Seat belts
are not as confining as wheelchairs.
A good time to keep your mouth shut is
when you’re in deep water.
How come it takes so little time for a child who
is afraid of the dark to become a teenager who wants to stay out all
night?
Business conventions are important because they demonstrate how many people a company can operate without.
Why is it that at class reunions
you feel younger than everyone else looks?
No one has more driving ambition
than the boy who wants to buy a car.
There are worse things than getting a
call for a wrong number at 4 a.m. — Like this: It could be a right number.
No one ever says ‘It’s only a game’ when their team is winning.
Do you
realize that in about 40 years, we’ll have thousands of old ladies running
around with tattoos? (And rap music will be the Golden Oldies!)
Money can’t
buy happiness — but somehow it’s more comfortable to cry in a Corvette than
in a Yugo.
Always be yourself. Because the people that matter, don’t mind.
And the one’s that mind, don’t matter.
And finally — Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.
Beautiful downtown flowers
This year the downtown flowers, both hanging baskets and
pots, are quite beautiful. I love flowers and respect the time spent to
buy, plant and care for them. Occasionally Dan and Judy Adelsberger have
been spotted supervising the watering process. The purple colors are also a nice touch. Thanks to all those who have done this work to make
our town more attractive!
Balloon Fest this weekend
With all the recent
publicity, I guess you would have to be living under a rock to be unaware
that the Balloon Fest is in Marysville this weekend at the Union County
Airport. There will be, weather permitting, balloons in the air, lemonade,
pulled pork, kettle corn, funnel cakes, beer and lots of other good things
to eat and drink.
Each evening features a great band and at dusk the
balloons will be tethered with a beautiful warm glow, that’s one of my
favorite parts. I’ll be there and I hope to see you all too.
Today’s
Message of the Day is:
Life is short, break the rules,
forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, and
never regret anything that made you smile.
8/7/09
Erin Snowden and Mt. Mckinley
Early last winter I told you about Erin Snowden
and his quest to reach the top of Mt. Everest. First he had to have
bariatric surgery in 2004, and two years later had lost 155 lbs. going from
360 to 205 lbs. and 13 percent body fat. Then in preparation, he worked
out heavily at the Marysville YMCA and worked the night shift at Mt.
Carmel Hospital in Columbus, all this while going to college and
earning an associate degree in finance (Magna Cum Laude).
He is
continuing his studies for a bachelor’s degree to be finished this winter.
Oh yes, each day he also drives 55 miles each way to his job at Mt.
Carmel.
Last summer he climbed the first leg in his journey, Mt. Rainier
in Washington State. It was a six-day expedition. The second leg has
just been completed. He conquered Mt. McKinley in Alaska this July.
Erin
said: “Mt. McKinley has larger bulk and higher rise than Mt. Everest.
Additionally, because of the high altitude (20,320 ft. above sea level) and
also the higher latitude, the levels of oxygen are much lower than that of
mountains of similar height. The weather is typically worse than is
experienced on Mt. Everest. Mt. McKinley is also referred to as Denali, the
native name, which is the name currently recognized by the state of
Alaska.”
Erin’s cost to climb Mt. McKinley was about $8,600. The expedition lasted 18 days (climbing six to eight hours each day) and began with their base camp at Talkeetna, Alaska. His group was comprised of six
climbers and two guides and there were seven other teams on the
mountain at the same time.
It was cold with lots of snow and Erin admits
he was nervous. It’s a treacherous climb beginning across a glacier. Team
members would go up 3,000 ft. and back down to get their bodies used to the
altitude. They were tied to each other and quickly learned to trust the
other people in their group.
On the way up, there was an earthquake and
even though they didn't know what it was at the time, an avalanche of snow
came roaring down the mountain at them and they had to run to get out of
the way. There was an emergency radio and a satellite phone if
needed.
Also, there just happened to be a physician on his team who came in handy when one member experienced extreme altitude sickness and his lungs filled with fluid. He had to be flown off the mountain on an emergency basis. At that point the others had to start hauling his gear
in addition to their own. Each man had a 65-lb. backpack and a sled full of
supplies.
On the worst night of snow and cold, the climbers laid in their
two-man tents in sleeping bags — guaranteed to 60 below zero. Two feet of
snow fell.
Erin and his bunkmate awoke gasping for air. The two feet of
snow was laying on their tents and all the oxygen was gone inside. They
woke choking and couldn’t breathe, but eventually Erin reached up and got
his arm through the snow to make a hole that let air inside. The other
campers had not noticed their plight until Erin and his friend had rescued
themselves. Let’s just say that could’ve been the end of the journey for
these two men.
They reached the top and returned safely. At that point, Erin
was anxious to see his family and eat some regular food.
As you may
expect, Erin is already planning his next climb. It will be Mt. Aconcagua
in Argentina. Not only is this the highest mountain on the South American
continent at 22,841 feet, but also it will have less ice than on Mt.
McKinley. This will also cost about $8,000.
Erin always has a new goal and it
keeps him focused on fitness. He hopes to be a model for those who have
bariatric surgery, showing
what can be accomplished.
This is a very
driven and determined young man, who has already conquered a huge weight
problem, completed 200-mile bike rides, and climbed two mountains, all
while earning a college degree. He has a goal and could use some help
getting there. To learn more about Erin’s mountain climbing adventures and
sponsorships you can go to his web site, www.myjourneytothetop.org.
7/31/09
Where are they now?
He’s a transplant from Marysville to the Far East and
subscribes to the Journal-Tribune online to keep up with the old hometown.
Lloyd Arnold is a member of the MHS class of 1961 and returned here for
his 20th and 30th class reunions. I remember meeting him and his wife
Yasuko since my husband Dan is a member of that class also.
They live in
Japan where Lloyd worked for a Japanese securities company as an editor,
rewriter and translator. Now he is a freelancer and works on anything
related to English from correcting spelling to teaching to
translations.
When I asked him if he was retired he quipped: “I’m still
working. My wife won’t let me retire! I think it has something to do with
the Japanese work ethic.”
He said that many Japanese continue to work,
mostly in the rural areas. “TV programs go into farming areas and interview
people who are in their 80s and 90s who are still active in the fields,” he
said.
Here is what Lloyd also said: “I miss Marysville sometimes, but by
that I mean the old Marysville. Since it has become bigger, every time
I return, I feel that I don’t belong. One thing I don’t miss is the
weather, especially the cold rain. Maybe that’s why so many people from
Marysville go to Florida and Arizona. It’s hot and humid in Tokyo in the
summer and sometimes there is cold rain in the fall, but not as much as I
remember in the old hometown. I believe it
snowed here only once last
winter, but it didn’t stick to the ground.”
“I think what I miss most is
meeting people on the street who I know. Of course, I meet people on the
street here, but it’s not the same. I like to read your columns (‘Off The
Hook’ in the Journal-Tribune) especially when you mention that some young
person is on their way to Japan.”
“The biggest group of foreigners in
Japan is the Koreans who stayed after WWII, followed by those who have come
to make a better living than they could in their home countries. Then there
are the executives who were sent here by their companies and next is the
U.S. military. Lastly, are the rest of us who have come here not for
improved financial situations, but for other various reasons.”
“Recently,
a friend introduced me to a man who was walking past one afternoon. His
name was Jobu and he was from Senegal. We talked for a while and I
mentioned I was from Ohio and he said, ‘Oh, my brother is in Ohio.’
Surprised, I asked him what his brother was doing there and he said, ‘Oh,
he works for Honda at a place called Marysville.’”
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I recently heard
from Joan Simmons Ruff, who also reads the J-T online and she told me the
following: “I graduated from Marysville High School in 1971 and Ohio State
University in 1975 with a degree in Health Information Management. I have
been working for the Toledo Children’s Hospital in the newborn intensive
care unit for 27 years as a quality assurance/data specialist. I am married
to Gary who graduated from the University of Cincinnati and is a compressed
air engineer (kind of unusual).”
“Our children are grown now. Kristen
Barbara Boggess was married last June and is a graphic designer in
Pittsburgh, Pa., and Stephen James is an information technology consultant
for Attevo. He lives in Columbus, Ohio, but currently works in New York
City. They are very proud of the Simmons Trail in Marysville (named for her
father, Jim), and we all try to stop and walk it on occasion.”
“I keep
in close contact with several people from the MHS class of ‘71 — Karen
Crosman Herold, Molly Scheiderer Wagner and Rita Dailey Hayes. We still get
together on a regular basis.”
“My brother Jim (Simmons — MHS class of ‘68)
has had an interesting career as a golf superintendent. He was the head
superintendent at Muirfield when it was built by Jack Nicklaus. He is now
the ‘super’ at Shoal Creek Golf Course in Alabama. He has two daughters —
Barbara and Patty.”
Retires from Recorder’s office
She
has been a mainstay in the Union County Recorder’s office since 1984, but
today is her last day on the job. Dorothy McCarty is retiring after 25
years. Her last position was chief deputy which means she was in charge
when the recorder was not there. Before taking the job at the Recorder’s
office, she worked 16 years at the Ohio Orchard near Milford Center.
She
reports that the biggest changes in the office during her years there came
about 10 years ago when computers were finally installed. She said that it
made their lives crazy at first, and then so much better.
In the old
days, perhaps only 10 documents needed to be recorded daily, which would
include deeds and mortgages. Now there are 50-100 a day and many more than
that during the big building boom a few years ago.
Dorothy has worked
for Betty Poling (who hired her), Beth Temple and now Teresa Markham. She
said that they all had different management styles and yet she enjoyed
working for all of them. She stressed it has been a fun job.
Now her
retirement will include quilting and working in her garden where she has
flowers and vegetables. There will also be time to take care of those
things which can be done when you don’t have a full-time job. She and her
husband, Ray, who is already retired, have three sons.
Happy retirement,
Dorothy!
7/24/09
Vineyard members take on Brazil
Eight members of the Vineyard Church
of Marysville, Tony and Susie Pfarr, J.J. Hane, Megan Lahman, Kelsey
Browne, Christina Planck, Morgan Beeching and Judy Michael, traveled to
Castanahl, Brazil, as missionaries for 10 days. They went to help a family
— Scott, Becky and Trevor Jollenbeck — who have been full-time missionaries
there caring for people of the region for about four years.
The
Jollenbecks’ goal there is to build a series of large home-like buildings
which will serve as orphanages, and should house around 100 children when
completed. The group of helpers from Marysville were there to paint the
insides of these large homes and it was hard work.
In addition, they served
as teachers aboard a riverboat as it cruised down a tributary of the Amazon
River. As Judy Michael put it, riverboat is a glamorous name for what was a
very old, somewhat rusty boat which was just basic transportation for the
group as they traveled to see those who live on the river and spread the
word of God.
The group presented a series of what Judy termed “Vacation
Bible schools” to help people learn about Christ. Inhabitants of the
region (where it’s dark at 5:30 p.m. even now) live in tiny shacks built
of anything leftover or available in the area. At night, people sleep in
hammocks that are suspended from the rafters of these shacks.
During the
day, families spend their time on the river in a small boat somewhat like a
canoe. They use the river as a bathing facility and bathroom even though
there are alligators and tarantulas in the area.
The people have nothing
in the way of possessions and this group of missionaries was there to give
them spiritual help. The Marysville group visited three churches along the
way where everyone spoke Portuguese. They prayed with over 100 people, and
played games with children sending them home with goodie bags. Judy said
that people were so appreciative of the smallest thing you might do for
them and the group was very humbled and glad they’d come to this
place.
Churches on the river were built through funds raised by Project
Amazon, started over 25 years ago to reach the river people and tell
them about Christ. Estimates are that some 40,000 towns exist in the
river area. As villages grew up away from the river, people would move
to them and that’s where a lot of the “invasion colonies” were formed. Any
time there is a large vacant area, people will move in and construct
shacks. When there are enough, sometimes the electric company will come to
provide service and then a nearby city will provide water. Up until that
time, people live with no amenities.
Most of the river people walk or ride
bicycles to get anywhere. All bikes have a hauling device over the back
wheel. The group saw hundreds of bikes hauling people, several with women
holding babies. Not only can these people not afford cars, but also gas is
over $6 a gallon.
This venture into missionary work was a real eye
opener for the group of travelers from Marysville. It was a period of hard
work and an adventure in a foreign country. But the most important time was
that of spreading the word of God to people who truly live in another
world.
7/17/09
From Vietnam to Marysville restaurateur
He was a young boy from a farm in
Pike County who went to Vietnam at age 20 and ended up in Union County as a
restaurant owner.
Bob Montgomery started school at age five in a country
school with two grades in each room. The reason he had to begin early was
his cousin, who was also in school, wouldn’t stay inside the building for
class and the answer was to have Bob there to keep him in place. With
two grades in a room, by the time Bob got to the seventh and eighth
grades it became quite an advantage. The same teacher taught both
grades about a half hour at a time, so Bob couldn’t help but pick up a
little bit from grade eight when he was in grade seven.
After graduating from
Waverly High School in 1966, Bob landed a job making metal components for
aircraft landing gear. After two years there, the sound of metal on metal
became very familiar to him and would probably save his life in Vietnam —
more about that later.
The late sixties were days of the military draft and
just before he would have been drafted, Bob enlisted in the U.S. Army so he
could choose a specialty. Aviation was high on his list even though at age
19 he had never been in an airplane. His specialty training was as a
helicopter mechanic, and he focused on the Chinook cargo
helicopter.
After just 12 weeks training he was shipped off to Can Tho, Viet
Nam, a small village just outside of Saigon. There was a tiny Army
airfield there in the southern part of Vietnam, which was the rice
growing region. It’s hot there and it rains every day in the spring,
sometimes so hard you can’t see in front of you. Flying in this weather
can be scary.
The men slept under mosquito nets in buildings with screen for
walls. There were bugs and lizards everywhere. They had electricity most
of the time, and the men would run fans to try and keep mosquitoes
away.
At age 20, Bob’s job at the base was to take care of his Chinook
helicopter, so large it could hold two jeeps. He began as a gunner,
then crew chief, and then flight engineer, the senior enlisted man’s
position next to the pilot. His job was to handle the cargo that they
hauled daily. It could be people, it could be things, it could be
bodies. The crew had armor plated vests because they were shot at regularly. They would be best protected by sitting on these metal vests
because the artillery came from below them. In 1,100 hours of flying time,
Bob was never wounded.
One day on a routine mission, things went wrong aboard
the helicopter. Bob heard a noise that sounded like metal on metal. He
recognized the grinding from his days in the machine shop. He told the
pilot they needed to land quickly and he did so in hot, enemy territory on
a beach, openly exposed. In five minutes Bob learned that the grinding,
cutting noise involved the shaft which drove the duel helicopter
blades.
Soon crew members heard movement in the jungle and even though they had radioed for help, they didn’t know if it would be coming in time. They began digging in the sand and forming a wall around the helicopter
and, just in time, friendly South Vietnamese aircraft appeared and began
strafing the tree line with their guns. American helicopter gunships showed
up firing, too.
Within minutes, even more American helicopters showed up with
extra troops and the part needed to repair the disabled helicopter. Within
20 minutes, the part was replaced and everyone got away safely, dodging
the big bullet, so to speak. No Americans were hurt that day. Bob was only
22 years old — so much responsibility for such a young man!
A few years after
entering Vietnam, Bob went home to the real world. In 1983 he married Song
Cha (also known as Sandy). They lived in Columbus and Bob worked as a civil
service employee for Don Scott airfield. There, he again worked on
helicopters and became a pilot in the Army National Guard.
In 1988 he
and Sandy opened Monty’s bar and restaurant in Marysville with a very tiny
kitchen. That business grew quickly and they moved to Marysville. By 1998,
they were now self-taught and experienced in the restaurant business. So
when they opened their new place, they named it Sandy’s. It was located on
the east side of town, just off Rt. 36. They worked hard — 85 hours a week
— and just two months ago sold it. It is now Lucasey’s, an Italian
restaurant.
Life is suddenly simpler for Bob and Sandy. They are both happy
to be retired at a young age and actually having a life now. It is much
calmer certainly, compared to the stressful yet exciting, life-threatening days on a giant helicopter dodging bullets.
7/10/09
Richwood native
in Shah’s Iran
For a farm boy from Richwood, who said he
was naïve about the world, Chuck Minter has come a long way.
When he was
college age, he didn’t even know how to drive to Columbus. He began his
life on a 430-acre dairy farm near Richwood. He spent some years in the
U.S. Air Force and worked for the country of Iran. He then returned to the
farm. Obviously, his life has been diverse.
After two years at Ohio
State University majoring in dairy herd management, Chuck was about to be
drafted. Instead, he joined the Air Force receiving one stripe for his
college years (airman third class). His first assignment was the stressful
one.
He was sent to a SAC Air Force base in Lincoln, Neb. and worked on
the two-man concept. That was, two people of equal rank and skill doing
the job of one man, in this case on an aircraft carrying nuclear weapons.
Chuck was required to carry a sidearm and had to agree that he would shoot
his partner if necessary. The reason for that would be some interference
with nuclear weapons aboard the plane they were working on.
They each
had to see a psychiatrist regularly to make sure that their mental state
was up to the job. Chuck only lost one partner during his two-year stint
and he doesn’t know what happened. The guy just disappeared one day.
The
Air Force moved him from this stressful job to Osan, Korea, where his job
was to distribute aid and help the locals, showing compassion in any way he
could. This is where he met his wife Chong Hui and they married in 1966.
There were three separate ceremonies — one in the mayor’s office in the
Korean language, one at the American Embassy in English and then one under
the eyes of God back at his base.
By 1968 he was out of the Air Force and,
through the GI Bill, finally got his commercial license to fly.
Unfortunately, the airlines were not hiring at that time, so the ad in a
newspaper was extremely enticing. It said, “work in Iran,” and the money
was very good. He and his wife were interviewed extensively (mostly her
because Iran was not that friendly to women). An American company did the
hiring for the Shah of Iran. He needed people to work on his airplanes, to
modify them, repair them and then test fly them after the repairs. All
that was Chuck’s job along with 33 other people who made the trip to live
in Iran.
The Iranian government provided Chuck and his wife with an 18-room
house in the desert. It had running water only four hours a day so they
filled the bathtub for later use. The toilet was just a hole in the floor
and that was a problem because ugly bugs came crawling up out of it.
Finally, a modern western toilet was installed. There was only one window
air conditioner for the house in that terribly hot country, but they were
also only a mile from the beach.
Drinking water was a problem, so they had to
balance the intestinal effect by eating goat cheese, which served as a
binding agent.
The American workers were married and most of the women were
natives of other countries. One wife was Russian and served as teacher for
the children and another wife was a nurse who took care of health
needs. The doctor only arrived once a month from Tehran, which was 500
miles away.
Usually the job lasted 18 months in Iran, but many people stayed
more than one stint (Chuck stayed 7 years). The pay was excellent. In
fact, if you stayed away from the U.S. for more than 510 days at a
time, all the money you made was tax free.
Many spoke English in the
large cities and Chuck became fluent in their native language,
Farsi.
While there, Chong Hui was able to wear American clothes and did not
have to cover her head. In fact only about 25 percent of the women
covered their heads in the 1970s, because the Shah was a moderate
(friendly to the U.S.) and let women become lawyers and drive
cars.
Political problems in Iran began just a few months before the Shah
left power. There was much unrest in the country and Ayatollah Khomeini
was about to take control. Chuck knew it was time to get out because the
atmosphere everywhere was anti-American.
As quickly as possible, he and his
friends returned to the U.S. Chuck went back to the farm, which he managed
with his brothers, and even implemented an ethanol system to run the farm
equipment. All the knowledge he gained in the Air Force and his work in
Iran made him somewhat of a pioneer in this field.
Chuck and his family,
which includes two adopted Korean sons, sold their farm in the early 1990s
and he now works as a night watchman at a plant in Marysville. He’s very
proud to have conquered dyslexia and of learning to fly an airplane with a
commercial license. He also loves to talk to students and stress the
importance of an education, particularly if you enjoy planes as he does and
want a career in aviation.
7/3/09
Officer in charge - part 2
Last week Chief Floyd Golden of the Marysville
Police Dept. took us through his early years in law enforcement. He grew up
in Plain City where his father, Bill, was police chief and also served the
Union County Sheriff’s Department as a deputy. He would even let his son
ride in the cruiser with him at times. That was when his fate was
sealed. Floyd entered the Ohio Highway Patrol Academy in Columbus and
was on the road as a trooper in 1971.
The highway patrol assigned him to
Granville and later to Van Wert. By 1992, he was living in Milan and his
territory was the Ohio Turnpike. At that time, there were three patrol
posts on the toll road which runs along the northern part of the state. The
area which spanned 240 miles was covered by 91 troopers.
There were drug
busts, counterfeit arrests, and, of course, the usual traffic violations.
One of the toughest things about patrolling this long stretch of highway
with limited access is that help could be 20 minutes away in the event of a
serious accident or a situation in which the trooper needs help with an
arrest, particularly drugs. Aid would not come immediately. He was never
physically attacked while working, but now things in the world and people
are quite different.
According to Floyd, one of the most important things is
your image as you approach a car that you’ve pulled over. You need to be
confident and have good people skills. If you don’t have them, you better
get them. Drugs busts usually begin by noticing nervousness or the smell of pot. The stress level for the officer can rise quickly.
Even though
the patrol transferred his family several times, by 1980 they were back in
central Ohio. He worked at the Delaware Post just south of that city. There
was no Marysville post, but there were three resident officers assigned to
this area, Charlie Beams, Ted Byus and Tom Bidlack.
When the Marysville
Post opened, Lt. Floyd Golden became the commander there from 1994 to 1997.
When he retired from the patrol, he stayed right in the same line of
business as court services and 911 coordinator for the Union County
Sheriff’s Dept. with his eye on the Marysville police chief job. In 2004,
he was named to head the Marysville Police Department and in his words, he
really likes it.
He knows that things have changed in the county over the
years with regard to law enforcement and crimes committed. When he was
growing up in the fifties and sixties there was beer and maybe an
occasional town drunk who everybody knew. In those days, it was safe to
just pick him up and take him home. But now, because of liability and
other changes in the law, that’s usually not possible. The days of
small time law enforcement are gone.
Now a big problem is drugs, not just
pot, but very serious stuff like heroin and all the problems it brings.
People who are hooked on this drug or other opiates need $200 a day just to
maintain normalcy. They wake up every morning thinking how they can get
money to buy the drugs. That often involves burglary, thefts and other
crimes. When a person has to go for rehab, it costs thousands of dollars
and usually means an out-of-state facility.
Not only are illegal drugs a
problem, but so is the theft of prescription painkillers which are based in
opiates. Homes of senior citizens and retirement centers can be the target
for criminals because it is known that there may be some prescription drugs
on hand. Chief Golden’s advice is, lock your doors.
Our police
department is a full service operation. There are calls ranging from
refereeing neighborhood disputes to tackling abuse situations. My favorite
is the call to the police from a mother to get her teenager out of bed to
go to school. Maybe it is still a small town!
During his five years as
chief, Floyd has made many improvements in our police force. One is a focus
on finances. For example, since gasoline has been so expensive the three
bicycle officers have been added who use nothing but their own power to
ride around. They were actually sent to a bike riding school - don’t laugh
(I did). They learned how to ride the bike down steps when in pursuit
without getting hurt, how to shoot from a bike and tactics for chasing a
fleeing person. The addition of electronics like mobile computers, in-car video and GPS tracking have brought us into the 21st century of law
enforcement.
Chief Golden is proud of his staff of 33 officers (including
two women) and dispatchers, 19 of whom are Union County natives. With his
calm demeanor and years of experience, it looks like we are in good
hands.
6/26/09
Officer in charge!
When you first meet him, the only thing that tells you he
is the police chief is his uniform. His calm, kind, assured demeanor would not say “cop” to the average person, but law enforcement has been his life and his love.
Floyd Golden has been Marysville Police Chief since
2004 and he considers it five very good years in his life. Here’s how he
got to this point.
He grew up in Plain City and his father, the late
Bill Golden, worked at least two jobs to care for his family. One very
important job was
serving as police chief of Plain City. He also worked for
the Union County Sheriff’s department.
That’s where Floyd really got a
taste of police work as he rode with his father in the police cruiser some
evenings. It may also be where he heard early stories about the Marysville
and Plain City police departments.
One story was of the red light at the
intersection at Fifth and Main Sts. in Marysville, and a similar one at the
main intersection in Plain City. There were no police dispatchers in those
days (’40s and ‘50s). When a call came into the police for help of some
kind, the red light was turned on at that intersection to alert the officer
as the police cruiser drove by. He would know that he needed to call in or go to the station to see who needed help.
Floyd also remembers that in
the 1950s and ‘60s there was a police radio the size of a briefcase which
was passed around from car to car. Also, the police phone would sometimes
be set to ring into their house in Plain City so that they could take calls
when not in the office. Sometimes his mother answered the phone and relayed
the message.
After graduating from Jonathan Alder High School in 1964, Floyd
had several jobs, one at a factory, a stint as a letter carrier and finally the U.S Navy. In was in 1966, during his Navy years, that he married his sweetheart, Phyllis Pine. They moved to Lemoore, Calif. where he was based at a naval air station in the desert for four years.
He never served aboard a ship.
By August, 1969, he was out of the service and
back serving as a letter carrier. When the weather became very cold, he
knew this wasn’t for him. He put his electronics training from the Navy to
work at Industrial Nucleonics in Columbus. But none of this was really how he wanted to spend his life.
One evening he was riding in a sheriff
deputy’s car and he told his dad he was really interested in police work.
They agreed the Ohio Highway Patrol might be for him. His father made a
phone call and within minutes a highway patrol car drove up near them and
inside was Charlie Beams, already a member of the highway patrol and a
resident of Marysville for many years. He had an application for Floyd and within six months Floyd found himself in the Highway Patrol Academy in
Columbus.
The patrol was founded in 1933 for crash investigation and
commercial vehicle enforcement. It has since evolved into other duties such
as criminal investigation.
His wife was what you might say not all that
happy since she had seen police work interrupt the lives of their family
over the years and saw that this would be Floyd’s life. Then he said
(later), without her eventual support he could not have made it through
those days at the academy. Students live there for three months and learn
shooting, perfect public speaking and even spelling, criminal investigation
and self defense including boxing. It was very regimented, but he was well prepared from his Navy boot camp experience.
Floyd says the academy
gives you all the tools you need to be out on the highway, plus 60 to 90
days of on-the-job training with another experienced officer.
I asked
him if he remembered his first traffic stop by himself and he could not. He
did, however, remember his first crash scene investigation. It was at a
busy intersection in North Columbus and his job was to keep everyone safe
and traffic moving, and get those injured to the hospital. It was stressful
and he was glad to get through it and confident that the situation didn’t
get any worse after he arrived.
The worst part about his job as a
highway patrolman was notifying the next of kin after a deadly accident.
One situation sticks out in his mind some 20 years later. It involved
telling people that their family members had died. In one case, two members
of one family were dead and so was one in another family. Floyd remembered
as he walked up to the door he could see a man sitting in a chair watching
TV and realized he was about to change his world. It is something you
never forget.
He said that the best part about being a highway patrolman
was helping people, especially those whose car had broken down on the interstate. Floyd came across a family one evening whose car was out of
gas. They had no money to buy gas and he gave them a little bit of cash
from his pocket so they could fill up and go home, never expecting to hear
from them again. (I suspect this action is quite typical of our police
chief.) Then one day there was a letter in the mail with a big thank you
and all the money returned to him.
Next week we’ll have more about Chief
Golden’s 26 years with the Ohio State Highway Patrol and how he got back to
Marysville to run our police department.
6/19/09
Of Army, Africa and Airborne
His demeanor is calm and kind, he is
well educated in his field and he exhibits a sense of knowing what he’s
doing. This is Jon Bailey
(Fairbanks High School class of ‘92) and the
description is undoubtedly why he’s been chosen to represent our country in
African
countries as part of the U.S. Army Reserves.
His road to that
job began shortly after graduation from Ohio State University with a degree
in finance. He worked for Andersen
Consulting in Columbus, where he
developed good IT (information technology) skills and traveled all over the
country for the company.
He moved on to work for OCLC in Dublin and just one
year later in 2002 (at age 28) decided to join the Army Reserves. He had
events of
911 in his thoughts and all of his family members had served in
the armed forces. There was a strong military tradition there and so he
signed up for the reserves.
His unit is designated civil affairs and is
an airborne unit (they jump out of planes!). More about that part of it
later.
In civil affairs (special operations school) Jon learned that our armed forces are more than just fighting with a gun. They fight
terrorism and aggression with kindness and aid for countries that are new to democracy and struggling to maintain it.
In 2004, Jon’s unit was
called up for the first time. He was originally told he would be going to
Iraq and that was fine with him.
It was his idea of serving his
country.
Then came the callback — no, you’re going to Afghanistan. That was
OK with him, too, but the final destination turned out to be Djibouti, a
small country in Africa (borders on Somalia and Ethiopia) where we have
a naval base. His group was based there, but traveled to Kenya,
Ethiopia
and Comoros.
Jon, as part of a team of about four (usually an officer and
three enlisted men) went out daily giving away aid and assistance of many
different kinds to residents of these countries who need help. The job
was to find out what these countries need and then help them —
build a
school, get school supplies, obtain better water, help train their troops,
etc. — anything that would legitimize their governments
and stabilize those
friendly to us. They were there to fight terrorism. Unfortunately some
governments change every two years in
Africa.
All this takes place in a
part of the world where the heat is intense and rice and goat with spices
(eaten out of bowls with your hands)
are favorite foods. People live in
huts built out of tarps, concrete blocks or trash found along the road.
They don’t have forests for
wood, but can import cement and gravel. Fresh
water is at a premium and bathing regularly is not practical.
While in
Ethiopia, Jon and his team were invited to attend a Muslim wedding which
lasted three days. They celebrated with the groom in
his tent and ate their
food and communicated through an interpreter. During the time they were
there, which was several hours, they never
saw the bride because she was
segregated in a tent with all the women, and the groom was with all the
men. Jon’s not sure exactly
when this wedding ended or if there ever was
the formal ceremony. When he returned from this first mission he got
married himself to
Tasha and they live in Dublin.
In 2008, Jon’s reserve
unit was again sent to Africa and he saw many of the same places and
actually was able to view the end of
construction of a school in Comoros,
which they had started when he was there before. It bears both their flag
and ours on the outside of
the building. He just returned home again in
December of 2008.
He’s been back to work at OCLC in Dublin and a few weeks
ago Jon went to satisfy the second half of his unit’s duty — airborne. He
and his
unit went to Canada to jump out of a perfectly good plane with Canadian counterparts. The Canadians wanted to jump out of an
American
plane. Jon has to jump four times a year as part of the obligation of this
unit.
I asked him if he was scared the first time he jumped. He said, “I’m scared every time.” His training for this part of his duty was just
three weeks long at jump school at Ft. Benning, Ga. The men learn to drop quickly and all land in the same area. One of the most important
things is the landing, and most of the time their training is spent on
this event. They learned to hit with their feet. The landing was
done over
and over, falling into pea gravel from about six feet up. Most injuries
occur at the fall.
Jon has jumped seven times and all from about 1,250 feet.
They jump in a group and I asked, “What if you get up there and don’t want
to
jump out of the plane?” He said they are read something every time, which reminds them that they must jump or action can be taken against
them. Of course, he explained there is a reserve chute on the front and
by the time you count 1-1000, 2-1000, 3-1000, 4-1000, the back
chute must
have opened. If not, you open the front chute. So far no problem with
that!
Although being airborne is a special skill, Jon, who is a Staff Sgt. (E6), is on the path to becoming an officer and his goal is to stay
in
the Army Reserves. He’s leaning toward military intelligence which would
mean a move to another unit.
His day job is as a manager using his computer
skills, but his relationship with the U.S. Army Reserves has become a very
important part of his life.
6/12/09
Student and teacher
He’s well on the road to success. He’s a 2003 graduate of
Marysville High School, a college graduate with two majors and a recipient
of a
grant from America Corps. for grad school at Johns Hopkins University. Grant Underwood is also a talented musician who is still
studying piano and playing the organ.
He receives his college degree from
the Ohio State University June 14, and will attend the Teach for America
Institute this summer at
Temple University in Philadelphia. This is to
prepare him for his teaching with America Corps. Add that to his degrees in
English and
music and you have a man ready to teach in inner city
Baltimore, Maryland ... hopefully!
But his degree is in English with no
education courses, so educational policy and class management are what he
will be studying
this summer at Temple. With this training he hopes to be
ready for the high school classroom.
Not only will he be a first-year
teacher in this special program to help disadvantage school districts, but
also a graduate student at
Johns Hopkins. At the end of two years of
teaching and studying he will receive a master’s degree in arts/education
which is
certification and teaching style based.
Grant was a
co-valedictorian at MHS with Larissa Ramsini. She has joined this program,
too. Both are assigned to the Baltimore school
system which has the second
worst graduation rate in the United States.
We’ll stay in touch with Grant,
following his first year of teaching in a challenging situation.
My
Russian friend again
You may remember a few months ago I wrote about my new
Russian friend, Roman Kravchenko. He and his family have been in this
country
for about 10 years. His wife, Natalia, was an Olympic gymnast for
the former USSR.
Roman grew up in a military family and had specialized
training in the Russian Army’s Special Forces. He also was a champion boxer
and
has coached this sport for several years. He is quite happy now to finally have a work permit, so he joined with several others in
opening
his own business in Plain City.
The venture is called Suplex City and offers
well-known coaches from the world of marshal arts including wrestling, kick
boxing, Judo, MMA
and boxing. Two of the wrestling coaches are veterans of
the Ohio State University wrestling team. The facility also offers an
obstacle
course, weights and cardio room and 2,500 sq. ft. of wrestling
mat. Training will be available every day from 6:30 a.m. until 9:30
p.m.
You can see these guys are serious about coaching. Competition will take place every Saturday and Sunday. The facility is open to the
public at no charge to watch the competition. Memberships are available
daily, monthly and yearly, and camps of all types will be
taking place this
summer.
Roman’s new facility is located at 7510 Montgomery Dr. in Plain City. It is next door to Integrity Gymnastics, where his wife spends
her days coaching. You can contact Suplex City at (419) 565-8015 or by
email at info@suplexcity.com.
Intelligent
readers
This little quiz is for all my readers who I believe are quite on
the ball! I could not figure it out and had to look at the answer. See if
you can figure out what these words have in common.
1. Banana
2.
Dresser
3. Grammar
4. Potato
5. Revive
6. Uneven
7.
Assess
Look at each word carefully.
Answer: (No, it is not that they all
have at least 2 double letters.) In all of the words listed, if you take
the first letter, place it at
the end of the word, and then spell the word
backwards, it will be the same word.
6/5/09
Marysville’s easy rider? Part 2
Last week, we met Officer Craig Nicol of the
Marysville Police Dept. Iwas extremely interested in him because he was
instrumental in bringing
the police motorcycle to town. We talked about his
experiences in learning to ride this particular cycle, which was not built
for that
specific purpose.
I also asked him about other events which
stood out in his nearly 12 years on the police force. He began with this
story:
“Our Special Response Team (SRT) had been called out to serve a search
warrant at a house. After we secured the suspect, the SRT team left the
suspect with the detectives, who were conducting the search.”
“The
suspect managed to get away from those officers and ran to his bedroom and
grabbed a handgun he had hidden. We were called back to
assist in getting
the suspect to surrender. He had the gun to his head for a couple of hours
threatening to shoot himself if we attempted to
come into his
bedroom.”
“A detective who had been negotiating with him was able to talk him
into setting the gun down, but the suspect had second thoughts and reached
for the gun. I was able to shoot him with the less lethal bean bag
round, which kept him from getting to the gun. Officers moved in and
secured the suspect and the gun. We were able to keep this guy from
killing himself, which is the primary goal of our SRT team, saving lives
not taking them. I saw the suspect in court a few days later and he
thanked me for the actions we took.”
A second memorable event came to
mind: “I was working second shift and we were called to check the well-being
of an infant due to reported
unsafe living conditions. We arrived at the
address and the mother was sitting on the porch with the child, whom I
believe was maybe four
months old. The mother had put strawberry flavoring
with regular milk in the baby's bottle.”
“She allowed us into her trailer
to check living conditions. There was animal feces and trash everywhere.
There was no place for the baby to
sleep and fleas and bugs were crawling
everywhere. We had to step out every couple of minutes because of the
ammonia smell from the animal
urine. The baby was very dirty and looked like
it had not been bathed for quite some time. We were able to get the baby out
of that
environment that night.”
So, now Craig is on the day shift and
for the most part during good weather rides the police motorcycle around
town. He enjoys the
maneuverability and thus the chance to get through a
traffic jam when necessary or be just a little less visible when using the
traffic
control devices, such as the laser unit. This allows him to shoot it
at a license plate as far as 2,000 feet away in a crowd of cars to record
the vehicle’s speed. The goal is just to get people to slow down and
drive safely.
Craig reports there have been no motorcycle accidents for
him, but he has melted some pairs of those polyester pants that police wear
because
of the heat coming from the exhaust. Now he is permitted to wear
heavier pants, which also must protect his legs better.
His first ticket
on two wheels was written just as he was learning to ride the motorcycle, to
a driver who pulled out in front of him from a
stop sign. Patrolling can be
tougher on two wheels. Early on it must have been precarious at
times.
Here was my chance to ask the question that so many want to know. It
turns out this involves a myth which must be an urban legend at least in
Marysville. I asked Officer Nicol if there is a quota for writing
tickets to bring in income for the city and if at the end of the month
many more are written to meet this quota. He replied that was absolutely
false. There is no such quota in our town, so now you know the rest of
the story.
Many members of Craig’s family led the way into law
enforcement. His father, Ken Nicol, retired as assistant chief from
Marysville PD. His
grandfather, Lavern “Wiener” Nicol, was auxiliary with
both the Ohio State Highway Patrol and the Union County Sheriff's Dept. All
of his
uncles were or are also part of MPD — Jerry Nicol, retired, Ron
Nicol, currently a sergeant, and Glenn Nicol, current assistant
chief.
Then there’s his mother’s side of the family. Grandfather, the late
Bill Golden, retired as Chief of Plain City PD. Uncle, Floyd Golden, is
current Chief of Marysville PD and is retired as a lieutenant from the
Ohio State Highway Patrol, and cousin, Shawn Golden, is a detective at
the Union County Sheriff's Dept. You can see this is truly the “family
business.”
Craig enjoys being on the motorcycle. It’s a great way to be
approachable to the public. Apparently, people will just walk right up
and talk to him which is great for public relations! He says sometimes
it’s really hot (there’s no air conditioning as in the cruiser), and by
late October when temperatures drop into the 40s, the motorcycle is put
away until springtime. Patrolman Steve Hardy and Sgt. Ron Nicol also
share time on this specialized cycle.
In the near future, look for more
on the Marysville Police Dept. from its top person, Chief Floyd Golden.
5/29/09
Marysville’s easy rider?
It’s a sign that the community is growing and we are
becoming much more metropolitan since we have a patrolman on motorcycle.
It’s
definitely an indication of something changing.
The person largely
responsible for this addition is a 1991 graduate of Marysville High School
and a full-time police officer with the
city of Marysville. Craig Nicol
said that when he graduated from high school he didn’t know what he wanted
to do even though his
grandfather, father, and several uncles were all part
of a police force.
He went to Kent State University and majored in criminal
justice, so he was leaning a bit that way. Eventually, he received his
associate
degree in law enforcement technology from Ohio University. He
says that about half of the Marysville police force has a degree or some
form of advanced training, which is strongly encouraged.
Finally Craig
settled on the police academy in Logan County and after six months training
(at night while he worked full time) which was
mostly classroom and also
some self defense and shooting, he joined the Wilmington, Ohio police
department in 1996.
By October of 1997 he was back in Marysville in what you
might call the “family business.” He was a police officer patrolling
Marysville
in his air conditioned police car and it was work mostly done
at night on the second shift. He still looks back fondly on that time
when most of the action is going on, as now his time is spent on the day shift. That fits his schedule better because he and his wife,
Tara
(Louck), have three children now.
About two years ago he became very
interested in adding a motorcycle to the police fleet of vehicles. After
all, he had ridden a
motorcycle since he was 18 and owned his own, but now
he could see many uses for it in the department. It could maneuver in and
out of
traffic where a car couldn’t go. It could get to the scene of a
crime when everything was at a standstill and he could sit out in the open
to patrol speeders and yet not be as visible as a car.
So, Craig is
credited with doing all of the research for the Marysville police
department and adding this advantage to their fleet
of vehicles. The
motorcycle was purchased through the local Honda dealership and not really
meant to be a police motorcycle in the
beginning. It had to be modified
with police saddlebags, emergency lights, siren and radio equipment. Then
Bob Chapman Ford painted it
to look like a police vehicle.
When I first
noticed Craig just a few weeks ago, he was patrolling the streets with his
radar gun. I was surprised to see him just off
W. Fifth St. Then just a few
minutes later I approached that crazy intersection at Community Market and
there he was again with his
radar gun pointed toward Milford Ave. I decided
it was time to learn more about his activities. Craig said that in addition
to radar he
has a laser unit which when pointed at a license plate in a
crowd of cars as far as 2,000 feet away, can indicate the speed of that
vehicle. Good to know!
The police officers who ride the motorcycle,
including Patrolman Steve Hardy and Sgt. Ron Nicol in addition to Craig,
received
intensive training in order to be qualified. Craig told me: “The Harley Davidson Motorcycle Co. with Northwestern University conducted
a
two-week police motorcycle course. Harley Davidson is a huge supporter of
police departments nationwide and donated the
motorcycles that we used
during the training. The course curriculum consisted of high-speed braking,
evasive techniques, and low speed
maneuverability. It is by far the
toughest training I have ever experienced. By the end of each day you are
sore from using every
muscle in your body to maneuver these bikes and also
from dropping them. It is very common, especially in the first week, to
drop these
motorcycles while learning the proper way to ride and maneuver
them. It’s never fun to have a 750-pound machine on top of you. If you
don’t pass the skills they teach you, they send you home. I had my mind
on getting a perfect score and am proud to say that I got it.”
“We were
trained on the Harley Davidson Road King, which is a common police
motorcycle and made for that purpose. As I had mentioned
during our
conversation, the motorcycle we ride was not made to be a police bike and
we had to add a lot to it to work as one. It is
extremely hard to maneuver
compared to what we were trained on, but I'm glad to just be able to patrol
on a motorcycle.”
Craig continued about the Marysville Police Dept.: “The
officers I work with are great people who care about the job they do and
the
people of this community. I know that if any of them were called to put their lives on the line, and many have, there would be no
hesitation.”
Next week: More about being a police officer through the
eyes of Craig Nicol.
5/22/09
Memorial Day thoughts
In the midst of hot dogs, hamburgers and bratwurst,
Monday, we need to pause and remember the reason we can have such
festivities. It's a
special holiday — Memorial Day.
On Thanksgiving Day
we pause to give thanks for the things we have. On Memorial Day we pause to
give thanks for those who fought to
preserve the things we have ... one of
the most important being our freedom!
Memorial Day is a time when we
remember all those who fought and died for our country and thus enabled us
to live the privileged lives we
have in America. In connection with this
day, Don Degood, a Korean War veteran, sent a note about saluting the flag
when not in uniform.
Don said: “I served in the Army after I was drafted in
January, 1951. My service in Korea was with the 8th Combat Engineers of the
1st
Cavalry Division. I also spent time in Japan. Korea is the forgotten War, why I don't know. History and today’s news media jump from WWII
to
Vietnam.”
The information Don shared came from the Korean War veterans
magazine called “Graybeards.” The article states that in January of 2008
President George Bush signed a law which amended the federal code concerning a veteran saluting the U.S. flag. It says the amendment
authorizes members of the armed forces and veterans who are present during the National Anthem but not in uniform to render a military
salute in the manner provided for individuals in uniform.
All other
persons present should face the flag and stand at attention with the right
hand over their heart. Don said that in the past, this
action was not
considered proper without a uniform. “This is great news for us old vets,”
he added. “I hope the story will be told with
Memorial Day coming
up.”
Now you know.
Many men and women gave their lives for their fellow
citizens, and this is the most serious of sacrifices. But there is also a
lighter
side to military service and one which has been documented in purported quotes from military manuals and famous people. I share
this
with you now as another look at the armed forces.
Wisdom from military
manuals:
If the enemy is in range, so are you - Infantry Journal.
It is
generally inadvisable to eject directly over the area you just bombed -
U.S. Air Force Manual.
Whoever said the pen is mightier than the sword
obviously never encountered automatic weapons - Gen. Douglas
MacArthur.
You, you, and you ... panic. The rest of you, come with me - U.S. Marine Corps gunnery sergeant.
Tracers work both ways - U.S. Army
Ordnance Manual.
Five second fuses only last three seconds - Infantry
Journal.
Any ship can be a minesweeper ... once.
Never tell the platoon
sergeant you have nothing to do - unknown Marine recruit.
If you see a
bomb technician running, try to keep up with him - USAF Ammo
Troop.
Though I fly through the valley of death, I shall fear no evil ... for I am at 50,000 feet and climbing.
You've never been lost until you've
been lost at Mach 3 - Paul F. Crickmore (test pilot).
The only time you
have too much fuel is when you're on fire.
If the wings are traveling faster
than the fuselage, it's probably a helicopter ... and therefore,
unsafe.
When one engine fails on a twin-engine airplane, you always have enough power left to get you to the scene of the crash.
There is no
reason to fly through a thunderstorm in peacetime - a sign over the
squadron ops desk at Davis-Monthan AFB, AZ, 1970.
Thanks to all members of
the military whom we honor on Memorial Day — for our lives, our country and
our freedom to choose.
5/15/09
Brownies, terrorism and Afghanistan
He is 26 years old and a 2001 graduate of
Marysville High School and later Capital University with a degree in
history. Eric Thrush, the
son of Steve and Amy Thrush and Harvey and Bonnie
Goertz, is now known as Specialist Eric Thrush of the United States Army.
His area
of expertise is gathering intelligence and he will be doing so in Afghanistan next week. His deployment will be for about a year.
His
interest in fighting terrorism began during his college years when Eric was
doing an internship in Washington, D.C. at the Center
for Terrorism. There
he did research, which included tracking terrorist activity around the
world. After that he was hooked, and
hoped for a career in the FBI or an
intelligence agency. That never materialized, so he enlisted in the Army to
do the same thing.
Of course, we know through the news that Afghanistan is a
hotbed of activity and Eric is really looking forward to doing his job with
an
infantry unit. It will include going through villages and seeking terrorists.
His new assignment was just what Marysville Brownie Troop 702
was looking for. His stepfather, Harvey Goertz, had a friend, Pam Seckel,
who is a Brownie troop leader of 6- to 8-year-old girls. They were looking for a service project and wanted to adopt a soldier, so
Harvey
mentioned Eric. When he was home on leave a few weeks ago, the girls met
with him and showered him with Girl Scout cookies and
wishes for his
safety.
They plan to stay in touch with him through e-mail and send him care packages. Eric was touched. Harvey said the little girls sat around
and
gazed at him as if he were a superhero. They also asked questions like: “Do
you carry a gun?” to which he said he did; “Are you
scared?” to which he
answered no since he and his fellow soldiers are well trained for the job.
Then they wanted to know how strong he was
and if he could lift several
tables at once?
The meeting with the Brownies provided Eric, who is stationed
at Ft. Carson, Colo., with one sendoff, and his family will be going out
west to be with him just before he leaves. The young girls who are part
of the Brownie troop will stay in touch and try to make his year-
long
deployment more enjoyable.
Good luck to you, Eric. We pray for your safety
while there, doing your job.
Pastor Jim day
He is currently the
Pastor Emeritus of First English Lutheran Church (serving from 1971-1985)
and is living at Carriage Court. The Rev.
Jim Baldwin is in his 94th year
and doing pretty well. He attends church — in the front row — every Sunday
and still enjoys interaction
with parishioners.
In 1991, Pastor Jim was
named to the Central Ohio Senior Citizens Hall of Fame and just about that
time the Union County Commissioners
took steps to honor him. They named May
25 Pastor Jim Baldwin Day and we remember that act again this year. He was
recognized as a dynamic
leader in many activities in our town and garnered
much appreciation for his efforts.
5/8/09
A look at mothers
This Sunday is Mother’s Day and my 39th time to celebrate
the event. I am a mother and a grandmother and have mostly loved all of
this experience. Recently a friend shared with me some thoughts about mothers, and so today in celebration I pass this on to you.
Real
mothers don’t eat quiche; they don’t have time to make it.
Real mothers
know that their kitchen utensils are probably in the sandbox.
Real
mothers often have sticky floors, filthy ovens and happy kids.
Real mothers
know that dried play dough doesn’t come out of carpets.
Real mothers don’t
want to know what the vacuum just sucked up.
Real mothers sometimes ask
“Why me?“ and get their answer when a little voice says, “Because I love
you best.”
Real mothers know that a child’s growth is not measured by
height or years or grade. It is marked by the progression of Mommy to Mom
to Mother.
The images of mother
4 years of age - My mommy can do
anything!
8 years of age - My mom knows a lot! A whole lot!
12 years
of age - My mother doesn’t really know quite everything.
14 years of age -
Naturally, mother doesn’t know that, either.
16 years of age - Mother?
She’s hopelessly old-fashioned.
18 years of age - That old woman? She’s way
out of date!
25 years of age - Well, she might know a little bit about
it!
35 years of age - Before we decide, let’s get mom’s opinion.
45
years of age - Wonder what mom would have thought about it?
65 years of age
- Wish I could talk it over with mom.
The beauty of a woman
The beauty
of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or
the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes,
because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love
resides.
The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole, but true beauty in
a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly
gives, the passion that she shows, and the beauty of a woman with passing years only grows!
The blue/green toe event
A friend of mine
who is also a mother and grandmother and who I have known for more than 15
years, recently did a really crazy thing.
About two weeks ago, I included
some hints in this column about home remedies. The one my friend was
interested in involved Listerine and
toe fungus. She even called me to see
if I knew how many times a day she should soak her toes in Listerine.
I
told her I did not know and asked her to let me know if that particular
remedy was valid. The phone rang just a few days later and
I just knew it
was too soon for that toe fungus to already be cured. Instead, she wanted
to remind me that Listerine comes in a very nice
blue/green color and
consequently her toes are now that same lovely color. Apparently, they were
stained by that product and we don’t
know yet if the fungus is gone. As we
finished our conversation she reported she was on her way to buy the yellow
color Listerine, much
closer to her skin color.
I won’t tell you who
the friend is, but just look for the blue/green toes!
5/1/09
The semi-secret project
Although it wasn’t meant to be a secret, it seems to
have certainly been a low-key project. It has been rarely reported in the
press and
was brought to my attention by Don Degood of Marysville. This was
a project of huge proportions which was meant as a kind acknowledgment
of the sadness our country experienced on Sept. 11, 2001. It is a gift
from a country that used to be our enemy — Russia — and from the
people of
that nation to the United States. It is a sculpture of tears and is
situated in Bayonne, New Jersey.
The idea for the gift began the same day our
country was experiencing its most terrible act of terrorism — 9/11. The
sculpture, labeled “To
the Struggle Against World Terrorism,” was conceived
the very day the tragedy unfolded by Russian artist Zurab Tsereteli. He is
in his 70s
and is president of the Russian Academy of Arts.
As he walked
the streets of Moscow that day, he was struck by the outpouring of grief he
saw as the Russian people sympathized with our
country. The image of a tear
formed in his mind and he was determined to build a monument as a gift to
our country.
Shortly after the attacks, the sculptor visited “ground zero”
and looked to New Jersey’s waterfront for an appropriate site for the
monument which would honor victims of the World Trade Center terrorist
attacks.
He chose Bayonne as a fitting location because the city was an arrival point for many New York City evacuees on 9/11 and a staging
area for rescuers. In addition, it offered a direct view of the Statue
of Liberty and the former World Trade Center towers. Now, as
you leave the
New York Harbor, you can see this monument just before the Statue of
Liberty. Many do not even know to look for it.
This gift from Tsereteli and
the Russian people, is made of steel sheathed in bronze. It stands nearly
100 feet high and the center
contains a jagged open tear. Inside the open
space of that tear hangs a 40-foot stainless steel tear drop representing
sadness and grief
over the loss of life, but also hope for future freedom
from terror. Etched in granite on the 11-sided base are names of the nearly
3,000
killed in both the 1993 World Trade Center bombings and 9/11 terrorist attacks.
There is some controversy about the names on the base
because the artist apparently used an outdated list and failed to remove
the
names of 43 people who were deleted from the official record because their deaths, and in some cases their existence, was not proven. As a
result, there was some criticism and controversy which continued to swirl around the 10-story sculpture located on the shores of New York
Harbor.
It seems some people just can’t appreciate, but must find fault
with the efforts of someone who was apparently just trying to do something
good for our country. Because of the support of Jersey City Mayor Glenn
Cunningham, the “Tear of Grief” monument committee (original
name) was able
to bypass many of the review requirements and push plans through for
acceptance by the city more quickly than normal.
Some objection to that was
expressed and threatened to end the project.
Finally Guy Catrillo, former
co-chairman of the 9/11 committee, may have turned the tide in this
disagreement when he stated that the
“Tear of Grief” should not be
considered a 9/11 monument, but rather a statement about world terrorism.
At this time the official title
was revised to read “To the Struggle
Against World Terrorism” and the project again regained momentum and
acceptance.
So now you know of this good deed meant to express compassion
for those in our country who suffered at the hands of terrorists. It’s an
act under-reported by the American press, and a positive result that should receive notice.
4/24/09
How to improve your life and maybe health
This week I am sharing with you
some of my most interesting mail from my most informed friends. The first
deals with facts (maybe) about
your body. Surely we can use this
information in some productive way!
It takes your food seven seconds to go
from your mouth to your stomach.
One human hair can support 3 kg (6.6
lb).
Human thighbones are stronger than concrete.
A woman’s heart beats
faster than a man’s. (Maybe that’s connected to our warmth and kindness as
women!)
There are about one trillion bacteria on each of your feet. (Oh my gosh!)
Women blink twice as often as men.
The average person’s skin
weighs twice as much as the brain.
The body uses 300 muscles to balance
itself when you are standing still.
If saliva cannot dissolve something, you
cannot taste it.
Tips to use or not use
Here are some tips, suggestions,
ideas and maybe even something enlightening for you. Try these if you want
and let me know how it
works ... or if it works!
Eliminate ear mites in
your dog or cat. All it takes is a few drops of Wesson Corn Oil in their
ear. Massage it in, then clean with a
cotton ball. Repeat daily for 3 days.
The oil soothes the cat’s skin, smothers the mites, and accelerates
healing.
Kill fleas instantly — Dawn dish washing liquid does the trick. Add
a few drops to your dog’s bath and shampoo the animal thoroughly. Rinse
well to avoid skin irritations. Good-bye fleas.
Rainy day cure for dog
odor — Next time your dog comes in from the rain, simply wipe down the
animal with Bounce or any dryer sheet
instantly making your dog smell
springtime fresh.
Did you know that drinking two glasses of Gatorade can
relieve headache pain almost immediately without the unpleasant side
effects
caused by traditional pain relievers? (This may depend on the
cause of the headache!)
Before you head to the drugstore for a
high-priced inhaler filled with mysterious chemicals, try chewing on a
couple of curiously
strong Altoids peppermints. They’ll clear up your
stuffed nose. (Plus your breath will be so pleasant.)
Sore throat — just
mix 1/4 cup of vinegar with 1/4 cup of honey and take 1 tablespoon six
times a day. The vinegar kills the bacteria?
Cure urinary tract infections
with Alka-Seltzer. Just dissolve two tablets in a glass of water and drink
it at the onset of the
symptoms. Alka-Seltzer begins eliminating urinary
tract infections almost instantly, even though the product has never been
advertised
for this use.
Listerine therapy for toenail fungus — Get rid
of unsightly toenail fungus by soaking your toes in Listerine Mouthwash.
The powerful
antiseptic leaves your toenails looking healthy again.
Easy
eyeglass protection — To prevent the screws in eyeglasses from loosening,
apply a small drop of Maybelline Crystal Clear Nail Polish
to the threads
of the screws before tightening them. (I have done this and it works, but
you need to reapply periodically).
Cleaning liquid that doubles as bug killer
— If menacing bees, wasps, hornets, or yellow jackets get in your home and
you can’t find the
insecticide, try a spray of Formula 409. Insects
reportedly drop to the ground instantly.
Smart splinter remover — Just
pour a drop of Elmer’s Glue-All over the splinter, let dry, and peel the
dried glue off the skin. The
splinter sticks to the dried glue.
Touted
benefits of fresh pineapple
Fresh pineapple tastes great and even better than
eating it might be worth a trip to Hawaii to enjoy it right off the tree.
If that’s not
possible, just buy it here and enjoy the benefits reported by
another note from one of my friends.
The pineapple is a member of the
bromeliad family. It is extremely rare that bromeliads produce edible
fruit. The pineapple is the only
available edible bromeliad today. It is a
multiple fruit. One pineapple is actually made up of dozens of individual
flowerets that
grow together to form the entire fruit. Each scale on a
pineapple is evidence of a separate flower.
Pineapples stop ripening the
minute they are picked. No special way of storing them will help ripen them
further. Color is relatively
unimportant in determining ripeness.
Choose
your pineapple by smell. If it smells fresh, tropical and sweet, it will be
a good fruit. The more scales on the pineapple, the
sweeter and juicier the
taste. After you cut off the top, you can plant it. It should grow much
like a sweet potato will. This
delicious fruit is not only sweet and
tropical, it also may offer many benefits to our health. Here are some of
the claims:
Pineapple is a remarkable fruit and it may be one of the most healthful foods available today. Pineapple is high in manganese, a
mineral that is critical to development of strong bones and connective
tissue. A cup of fresh pineapple will give you nearly 75
percent of the
recommended daily amount. It is reported to be particularly helpful to
older adults, whose bones tend to become
brittle with age.
Bromelain, a
proteolytic enzyme, is the key to pineapple’s value. Proteolytic means
“breaks down protein,” which is why pineapple is
known to be a digestive
aid. It helps the body digest proteins more efficiently. Bromelain is also
considered an effective anti-
inflammatory. Regular ingestion of at least
one half cup of fresh pineapple daily is purported to relieve painful
joints common to
osteoarthritis. It produces mild pain relief. In Germany,
bromelain is approved as a post-injury medication because it is thought to
reduce inflammation and swelling.
Fresh pineapple is high in vitamin C,
but contains lots of carbohydrates as do many fruits.
It is said we
should learn something every day. Here were lots of opportunities for
that!
4/17/09
It’s all about dedication
Two young ladies from Union County have just
shown us what dedication is all about. Margo Geer, a junior at Fairbanks
High
School, and Mary Kallinicou, an eighth grader at Bunsold Middle School in Marysville, are champion swimmers. They had the honor of
competing in the National YMCA swimming meet last weekend in Ft. Lauderdale, Fla., at the International Swimming Hall of Fame (a four-
day event).
Being a champion swimmer doesn’t come easily and demands
many long hours of work at the sport. Both Margo and Mary compete for the
Springfield YMCA and travel there after school and more, six days a week. They return home about 10 p.m. and start all over again the
next
day. Both girls have been competing since they were about seven years
old.
Margo has many honors to her credit including State Champ. Last summer she competed in the Olympic trials in Omaha, Neb., and has her
sights on that again in four years. She is the daughter of Mark and Linda Geer.
Interestingly, her parents were not competitive swimmers.
In fact, Linda says that when she was in college her swimming was so poor
that
she actually had to take swimming lessons to complete her physical education major. That left her determined that her children would
swim
well and both Margo and her brother, Marcus (a champion himself and a
junior on the swim team at Denison University), have benefited
from her
resolve.
Linda said that Marysville did not have a pool at their “Y” when Margo began to swim, so they joined the team in Springfield. They
have
stayed there because of the rapport with the others youngsters and their
coach, who has done such a fantastic job with Margo. She
not only swims
there every day, but also often at the Marysville “Y” before school.
Last weekend at the national meet, Margo swam again against another young
lady (Emily Lloyd) who she has competed against many times. The
two of them
tied in the 100 freestyle for the national title. It was a total dead heat
and they both hold that honor.
This national meet was the first time for
Mary to compete and as a rookie she swam in the 100 breaststroke, which is
her favorite event.
She feels she’s gained great experience and the next
time will be a little more comfortable. She also mentioned that she isn’t
used to
competing outside and the pool in Ft. Lauderdale is a large
outdoor pool.
Her parents, Nick and Julie, must be just as dedicated
as she to see that she keeps this rigorous practice schedule. In fact, it’s
a
family event whenever a child takes on a sport at this level.
Next
month Margo will compete as a member of the National Youth Team in
Vancouver, Canada. Again she will be competing against Emily
Lloyd and
possibly swimming with her on a relay team.
Good luck to Margo and Mary,
great examples of what can be accomplished with lots of
dedication!
Harriman takes honors
Dr. Bob Harriman is a 1965 graduate of
Marysville High School and the son of Margena Harriman Howard (who now
lives in Haines City,
Fla.) and the late James Harriman. He has just been
named the Rotary Club’s Citizen of the Year in Gulf Breeze, Fla.
He
currently serves as administrator for the Andrews Institute (for orthopaedics and sports injury) and the 65-bed acute-care Gulf Breeze
Hospital (part of Baptist Health Care). The city of about 6,500 people
is considered a suburb of Pensacola and is located on a
peninsula across
Pensacola Bay.
According to the area community newspaper Gulf Breeze News,
Dr. Bob has a clinical and administrative background — “He began his
career
in radiology, then earned his doctorate in educational leadership from Florida State University. He was the inaugural administrator for
Baptist Medical Park in Pensacola during its first years of operation.”
He is quoted in the newspaper saying, “The tenets of Baptist Health Care
are very like those of Rotary. By creating a strong, service
oriented
culture of excellence among employees, Baptist Health Care has spent
multiple years in the top 1 percent in patient satisfaction
surveys.”
Harriman also serves on the Gulf Breeze area Chamber of Commerce and is an
active volunteer for the Salvation Army.
4/10/09
A beautiful story of dreams
I recently found this story and thought it was
perfect for those of us who celebrate Easter. It certainly gives us
something to think
about. Sometimes we receive what we need and not what we
want.
Once there were three trees on a hill in the woods. They were discussing their hopes and dreams when the first tree said: “Someday,
I
hope to be a treasure chest. I could be filled with gold, silver and
precious gems and be decorated with intricate carvings. Everyone
would see
my beauty.”
The second tree said: “Someday, I will be a mighty ship. I will
take kings and queens across the waters and sail to the corners of other
worlds. Everyone will feel safe in me because of the strength of my hull.”
Finally, the third tree said: “I want to grow to be the tallest
and straightest tree in the forest. People will see me on top of the hill
and look up to my branches, and think of the heavens and God and how close to them I am reaching. I will be the greatest tree of all time
and people will always remember me.”
After a few years of praying that
their dreams would come true, a group of woodsmen came upon the trees. One
came to the first tree and
said, “This looks like a strong tree — I think I
should be able to sell the wood to a carpenter,” and he began cutting it
down. The tree
was happy because it knew that the carpenter would make it
into a treasure chest.
At the second tree, one of the other woodsman
said, “This looks like a strong tree — I should be able to sell it to the
shipyard.” The
second tree was happy, because it knew it was on the way to
becoming a mighty ship.
When the group of woodsmen came upon the third
tree, the tree was frightened because it knew that, if it was cut down, its
dream would
not come true. One of the woodsmen said, “I don’t need
anything special from my tree, so I'll take this one,” and he cut it
down.
When the first tree arrived at the carpenter's, it was made into a feed box for animals, placed in a barn and filled with hay. This was
not at all what it had prayed for.
The second tree was cut and made into
a small fishing boat. Its dreams of being a mighty ship and carrying kings
had come to an end.
The third tree was cut into large pieces and left alone
in the dark.
The years went by, and the trees forgot about their dreams. Then
one day, a man and woman came to the barn. She gave birth, and they
placed the baby in the hay in the feed box that was made from the first
tree. The man wished that he could have made a crib for the
baby, but this
manger would have to do. The tree could feel the importance of this event
and knew that it had held the greatest
treasure of all time.
Years
later, a group of men got in the fishing boat made from the second tree.
One of them was tired and went to sleep. While they were
out on the water,
a great storm arose, and the tree didn't think it was strong enough to keep
the men safe.
The men woke the sleeping man, and he stood and said “Peace,”
and the storm stopped. At this time, the tree knew that it had carried the
King of Kings in its boat.
Finally, someone came and got the pieces of
the third tree. It was carried through the streets, and the crowd mocked
the man who was
carrying it.
Finally, the man was nailed to the tree and
raised in the air to die at the top of a hill. When Sunday came, the tree
realized that it was
strong enough to stand at the top of the hill and be
as close to God as was possible, because Jesus had been crucified on
it.
The moral of this story is, when things don't seem to be going your
way, always know that there is a plan for you.
Each of the trees got what
they wanted, just not in the way they had imagined.
Happy
Easter!
4/3/09
A wagon teamster’s story
His name is Bob Skelding and at 49 years old (single
father of two grown children) he decided to take a trip ... an unusual
trip.
His dream was to travel freely about the country in a trailer on wheels pulled by four Percheron draft horses and see new places and
meet new people. Two of the horses are 15 years old, another one is 10
and the fourth is eight. Bob came through Marysville the first
week of
December and was featured on the front page of the Journal-Tribune.
Bob
built the 7x16-foot trailer himself. It included all the modern conveniences including a full-size bed and bathroom with shower.
There
was a kitchen which even allowed space for a table. Bob said the trailer
had to be made to support and care for his four much-
loved horses, plus be
light enough for them to pull and strong enough to last.
His trip began
last summer in Deerfield, N.H. Bob said: “I don’t know where I’m going or
where I’ll end up, but I think I’m really going to
enjoy the people and
places along the way. The sole purpose of my trip is to travel by horse and
wagon and meet people. I want them to
share their experiences with me and
I’ll share mine with them. I value non-tangible things and I like people
for who they are and not
for what they have. The reason I’m traveling in
this fashion is because it combines all the things I like best and
eliminates those I
like the least. Also I can’t think of a cooler thing to
do.”
His trip was going fine until February. By that time he had traveled more than 1,700 miles when he was involved in an accident in
Meridian,
Miss. He was driving his team of horses on a stretch of highway that had
little or no shoulder. Two 18-wheelers traveling
side by side crested a
hill and one of the trucks hit his 7,700-lb. trailer from behind. It was
demolished and two of his four horses
were killed. Bob was taken to the
hospital in critical condition and his two surviving horses were cared for
by a nearby veterinarian.
He said that his sister Debbie went to visit the
horses since he wasn’t up to it physically or emotionally. The horses are
resting
comfortably, both with wounds that will heal. This must be a very
sad time for Bob in many ways.
After more than two weeks in a hospital
Bob began to heal and declared: “I’ll have to do quite a bit of mending,
build a wagon,
acquire a couple of new horses and train them. These are
not insurmountable tasks, but nothing’s going to occur real soon. The
trip is by no means over — it has just been delayed while things are restructured.”
He continues to heal in North Carolina near his sister’s
home and hopes to continue on his way of meeting people all up and down
the
East Coast by midsummer.
You can follow his journey at
wagonteamster.com.
Where are they now?
I recently received a note from
Zelma Parthemer, who now lives in Ft. Lauderdale, Fla. She is a former
resident of the Marysville area and
keeps up with Union County by checking
on line at the Journal-Tribune Web site — marysvillejt.com. She told me
that she and her sons now
live in Ft. Lauderdale. Aaron (MHS class of ‘90)
has recently been selected to the top 1000 financial advisors in the United
States by
“Barrons,” the Dow Jones business and financial weekly.
He is
part of the Parthemer King Group at Smith Barney and specializes in
advising National Football League players in
preparation for
retirement.
U.S. News said: “Aaron Parthemer, 36, is a certified financial planner with Citi Smith Barney who has been working with athletes
since
2000, and his current roster includes 27 players from 17 NFL teams. He
offers a look at the less-than-glamorous future for the
majority of the
league’s players and advice for retiring from a career that usually lasts
only about 3 1/2 seasons.”
His Web site is
- http://fa.smithbarney.com/theparthemerkinggroup/index.htm.
3/27/09
About to be extinct in America
A friend recently shared some of this
information with me about things which may soon be lost to our culture. I
think you may be aware of some of these, too — others may surprise
you.
Phone land lines — According to a survey from the National Center for Health Statistics, at the end of 2007, nearly one in six homes had a cell-only phone, and of those homes that had land lines, one in eight,
only received calls on their cells. For me, this doesn’t work. I like
having my number available in a directory. What if I want to make a call
and don’t have the number. If it is cell only, there is no directory
access. On the other hand, many like this idea because they don’t want to
be bothered by unwelcome calls. I am the opposite
— I am a
communicator!
VCRs — For about three decades, the VCR was a best-seller and
staple in every American household until being completely decimated by the DVD, and now the Digital Video Recorder (DVR). In fact, the only remnants of that age are blank VHS tapes. Pre-recorded VHS tapes are largely gone and VHS decks are practically nowhere to be found. They served us so well, but the quality of recording is far superior in the
DVD form.
Ash trees — In the late 1990s, a pretty, iridescent green species
of beetle, now known as the emerald ash borer, hitched a ride to North America with ash wood products imported from eastern Asia. In less than
a decade, its larvae have killed millions of trees in the Midwest, and
continue to spread. More than 7.5 billion ash trees are currently at
risk.
Cameras that use film — It doesn’t require a statistician to prove the rapid disappearance of the film camera in America. Just look to companies like Nikon. In 2006 it announced that it would stop making film cameras, pointing to the shrinking market. Only 3 percent of its sales in 2005 were film cameras, compared to 75 percent of sales from digital cameras and equipment. There is certainly a great joy in immediately seeing the picture you took and determining if you need to
get the shot again — quickly!
The milkman — According to the U.S. Department
of Agriculture, in 1950, over half of the milk delivered was to the home in
quart bottles. By 1963, it was about a third and by 2001, it represented only 0 .4 percent. I remember our milk was delivered as recently as 1976. The milk man would just come in our house and put the large five-gallon container with pour tap right in the refrigerator for me.
Now
most milk is sold through supermarkets in gallon jugs. The steady decline
in home-delivered milk is blamed, of course, on the rise of the
supermarket, better home refrigeration and longer-lasting milk. Although
some milkmen still make the rounds in pockets of the U.S. they are
certainly a dying breed.
Hand-written letters — In 2006, the Radicati Group
estimated that 183 billion e-mails were sent each day, worldwide — two
million each second. By November of 2007, an estimated 3.3 billion people
owned cell phones, and 80 percent of the world’s population had access to cell phone coverage. Then we have to consider the trillion text messages sent weekly. So, where amongst all this communication is there
room for the elegant, hand-written letter? Is it polite to send that “Thank
you” note via e-mail?
Drive-in theaters — During the peak in 1958, there were
more than 4,000 drive-in theaters in this country. But in 2007 only 405
drive-ins were still operating. Exactly zero new drive-ins have been built since 2005. The drive-in was a place from my past. When I was in high school, we all met there on Saturday nights with or without dates to see the latest scary horror movie under the stars!
Honey bees — Perhaps
nothing on this list of disappearing America is so dire and so necessary to
the survival of our food supply as the honey bee which is being killed off
due to Colony Collapse Disorder, or CCD. Many agricultural crops are
pollinated by bees. The cause of the syndrome is not fully understood
although some believe it could
be due to mites or insect disease. The loss
of worker bees in colonies has spread throughout the U.S and Europe over
the past few years, wiping out 50 percent to 90 percent of the colonies of
many beekeepers and along with it, their livelihood.
The family farm —
Since the 1930s, the number of family farms has been declining rapidly, as
are many long-held family businesses. According to the USDA, 5.3 million
farms dotted the nation in 1950, but this number had declined to 2.1
million by the 2003 farm census. At one time, 91 percent of the U.S. farms
were small family farms. Some of this decline is due to sale of the farm
property to developers.
I know change is part of living and everything can’t
stay the same forever or we would have no progress, but some of these parts
of our lives will be sorely missed.
3/20/09
Once a Marine …
If you’re a member of the U.S. Marine Corps you have to be
tough, and these two men were, as they fought for their country in the
South Pacific during World War II. Joe Dodge is now 85 years old and
George Peto is 87. Both men served in combat on the front lines during
World War II, and luckily neither was ever wounded. In fact, both appear
to be in excellent shape with memories intact.
Memories are their
business now. They consider it their duty to share all they remember from
the days of battle with the 3rd battalion, 1st Marines. In fact they are
always looking for an audience and particularly enjoy sharing their war
stories with high school students.
Joe grew up on a farm in Jerome and
graduated from New California high school in 1942. There were 15 in his
class and the war was raging. He knew he would be drafted, so he joined the
Marine Corps.
He wanted to fight, and he did. He was known as Corporal Joe
Dodge in those days. He was a sharpshooter and an expert at making napalm
for flame throwers. He said he used a dry mix which was added to captured gasoline from Japanese vehicles to produce napalm.
That liquid was loaded
into flame throwers, which sent fire into the sky to land on huts called
pillboxes. These units were made of coconut bricks and housed the enemy
which was firing on them.
According to Joe and George, the job of operating
a flame thrower was a nasty one and so dangerous many of the operators were
burned up themselves due to malfunctions.
Joe was a part of the invasion
of Peleliu, one of the high Palau islands. The island interior was made of
coral mountains, which were hollowed out by the Japanese and entire cities
located inside. It was a hotbed of enemy activity and it took 78 days for
the allies to remove the Japanese from their stronghold, mostly by using
napalm to burn them out. There was lots of killing. Both Joe and George
said it was kill or be killed.
George was also part of the same
invasion, but did not know Joe at that time. The two men met many years
later at a Marine reunion and quickly became friends. George, who is now
87, grew up in Akron and entered the Marines in 1940. He said that when the
attack on Pearl Harbor happened, the U.S. became a completely united
country, bent on ridding the world of Axis powers, which were then their
total enemies.
Sgt. George Peto was a part of the landing force that came in
on LSTs (landing ship tank). He remembers that early in the morning of the landing, the invasion group went down to the lower deck and were served
steak and eggs. They called it the last meal. Quickly, carbon dioxide
filled the hold as the landing crafts were readied. The odor was terrible,
causing many of the men to be nauseated just before they went off on their
mission. They boarded the 25 LSTs, called the iron monsters, and because of
the tide timing, they needed to go toward the beach at about 8 a.m. The
vessels were driven for about an hour before reaching the beach.
At
that point, the wind blew the crafts toward the beach. Also, in case the
enemy on the island expelled poison gas, it would float back on them at
that time in the morning and not on the allied forces.
When the floating LSTs
hit the reefs, everyone bailed out and it was truly every man for himself.
In the Peleliu landing, 235 in his group made the landing but only 18
survived — George was of course one of those. He and Joe both said the
worst part of surviving this 70-plus day battle was the lack of water. It
was 130 degrees and when the water came to the troops eventually it had
been put in previously used gas cans so they couldn’t drink it.
George
said long after the battle was over and the fighting subsided, he and his
men were served a beer. They cooled it by placing captured Japanese
gasoline into their helmets and blew on it with a straw. The chemical
reaction made the beer in the cans cold. This was obviously the highlight
of their two months on Peleliu.
George and Joe both say that the memories of
what happened more than 60 years ago stay with them on a day-to-day
basis.
To this day the battlefield of Peleliu is still intact with ammo and tanks still there, serving as a memorial to the war. George and Joe are
eager to share their stories with students. They believe patriotism begins
in the schools and the two former fighting Marines are available to help.
You can reach Joe at (614) 504-5530 to learn more about how WWII shaped our
world today.
3/13/09
St. Patrick’s Day
St. Patrick is known as the patron saint of Ireland,
although he was not born Irish.
Patrick was born about 390 A.D. and
his birthplace is said to be in either Scotland or Roman England. His real
name was probably Maewyn Succat, though Patricius was his Roman name. So he
was called Patrick.
After much adversity as a young man he made his way to
France and joined a monastery where he spent 12 years in training, finally becoming a bishop. He felt a calling to Ireland to tell them about God.
Patrick was quite successful at winning converts there even though he was
arrested several times because of his teachings. But he escaped each time.
He traveled throughout Ireland establishing monasteries across the country
setting up schools and churches along the way.
Patrick's mission in
Ireland lasted for over 20 years. He died on March 17, 461. That day has
been commemorated as St. Patrick's Day ever since.
The Irish are such
colorful people with great stories. Here is one I recently received from a
friend:
This story happened a while ago in Dublin, Ireland, and even
though it sounds like an Alfred Hitchcock tale, believe it if you
wish!
John Bradford, a Dublin University student, was on the side of the road hitchhiking on a very dark night and in the midst of a big storm.
The night was rolling on and no car went by. The storm was so strong he
could hardly see a few feet ahead of him.
Suddenly he saw a car slowly
coming towards him. It stopped. John, desperate for shelter and without
thinking about it, got into the car and closed the door only to realize
there was nobody behind the wheel and the engine wasn't on.
The car
started moving slowly. John looked at the road ahead and saw a curve
approaching. Scared, he started to pray, begging for his life. Then, just
before the car hit the curve, a hand appeared out of nowhere through the
window and turned the wheel. John, paralyzed with terror, watched as the
hand came through the window, but never touched or harmed him.
Shortly
thereafter John saw the lights of a pub appear down the road, so gathering
strength, he jumped out of the car and ran to it. Wet and out of breath, he
rushed inside and started telling everybody about the horrible experience
he had just had. A silence enveloped the pub when everybody realized he was
crying and wasn't drunk.
Suddenly, the door opened and two other people
walked in from the dark and stormy night. They, like John, were also soaked
and out of breath. Looking around, and seeing John Bradford sobbing at the
bar, one said to the other, “Look Paddy, there's that silly idiot that got in the car while we were pushing it!”
The Irish are also the subject of
much great humor. Here is some more of that:
Paddy was driving down
the street in a sweat because he had an important meeting and couldn't find
a parking place. Looking up to heaven he said, “Lord take pity on me. If
you find me a parking place I will go to Mass every Sunday for the rest of
me life and give up me Irish Whiskey!” Miraculously, a parking place
appeared. Paddy looked up again and said, “Never mind, I found one.”
Gallagher opened the morning newspaper and was dumbfounded to read in the
obituary column that he had died. He quickly phoned his best friend,
Finney. “Did you see the paper?” asked Gallagher. “They say I died!” “Yes,
I saw it!” replied Finney. “Where are ye callin' from?”
And finally — an
Irish friendship wish:
May there always be work for your hands to do; May
your purse always hold a coin or two; May the sun always shine on your windowpane; May a rainbow be certain to follow each rain; May the hand
of a friend always be near you. May God fill your heart with gladness to
cheer you.
Thank Heaven for the Irish!
3/6/09
He’s a citizen now
His journey has been both long and short. He and his
family have been U.S. residents in Marysville and Green Card holders for
more than 20 years. A green card grants most of the rights of everyday
Americans for foreign nationals including the right to work. The exceptions
are voting, jury duty and holding office. Henk Berbee has had a green card issued for life. Now he has taken the next step. Yesterday he became a citizen of the United States of America, a process which
took
about five months.
Henk and Marianne Berbee and their children Bob and
Marjolein were born in Holland and that country does not allow dual
citizenship. The U.S. does. The process of becoming a U.S. citizen for Henk
means he denounces his Dutch citizenship.
I asked him why he would make
the change at this time. He said since his father and mother died (he
refers to himself with tongue in cheek as an orphan) he has not had the
drive to go back to his homeland. He said, “It’s just not like home
anymore.“
His naturalization process began last September by sending in his application form and $675 to Homeland Security. Apparently the difficult task of getting a green card in the beginning, which permits
one to work and operate as a quasi American, is the hardest hurdle. Since
that was conquered 20 some years ago, the steps to actual citizenship went
smoothly for Henk.
By late October he had moved on to the fingerprinting
stage at the federal building in downtown Columbus. All must have checked
out OK for him because he was granted his interview in early
February.
During the interview for citizenship Henk was asked to read and
write a sentence in English. Then followed the oral test. He was given a list of possible questions ahead of time so he could study. Since he got the first six correct, the interview was over and he passed.
One
possible slip-up could have been the question — If the president dies who
takes over? He answered Joe Biden. The interviewer wanted the response to
be the vice president. Once they settled that little difference, Henk was
informed he would be a citizen.
Now that he has that designation, he can
vote, serve on a jury and, equally important to Henk, he may run for
office. Don’t be surprised if you see his name on a ballot sometime in the
future.
Because Henk is now a citizen, Marianne, Bob and Marjolein can take their steps to naturalization and will be able to keep their Dutch citizenship, too, because of a quirk in the law. Though we Americans pride ourselves in knowledge about how our country works, some of those
answers Hank had to give were difficult even for one educated
in our
country. Here are a few for you to try:
No. 1 - How many changes, or
amendments, are there to the Constitution?
No. 2 - How many voting members
are in the House of Representatives?
No. 3 - What were the original 13
states?
No. 4 - Who was the main writer of the Declaration of
Independence?
No. 5 - Name the amendments that guarantee or address voting
rights?
No. 6 - In what year was the constitution written?
Answers - No. 1
- 27 amendments; No. 2 - 435 voting members; No. 3 - Virginia,
Massachusetts, Maryland, Rhode Island, Connecticut, New Hampshire, North
Carolina, South Carolina, New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Delaware and
Georgia; No. 4 - Thomas Jefferson; No. 5 - the 15th, 19th, 24th and 26th
amendments; No. 6 - the Constitution was written in 1787.
These
questions were some of the 96 possible to be asked on the naturalization
exam. So, you can see one has to be prepared for a little bit of
everything.
2/27/09
The great flood of 1959
The winter of 1959 was a memorable one in Union
County. The rains came in January and continued for days bringing major
flooding to the area, particularly Wheeler Green Rd. near Mill Creek. The
creek was overloaded with water and spilling onto the property of Esther
and Leland Smith. On January 21, 1959 the water was flowing in their yard and they were unable to drive out of the driveway.
For many people this
would be a problem but for the Smith family it turned into an
emergency.
To tell the story we go back to November 1958, two months before
the flood. Esther and Leland Smith had two daughters, Linda and Mary Ellen. It seems Esther hadn’t been feeling well or what she said “quite
right” and called her family physician, Dr. Marsh, whose office was located
in Broadway. He finally decided to admit her to the hospital in Kenton for
tests as they did in those days.
Esther said she was checked out and all
results came out okay, so she went home with no answer to her problem. Now
go forward to January 21, 1959 – two months later. The water from the flood
is rising and the Smiths are concerned – then it began.
Esther really
wasn’t feeling well in fact she said it was like she was in labor. How
could this be? Everything unusual had been ruled out with her tests and
her body had actually been operating as normal. She didn’t even have a big
tummy (but never did when pregnant with her daughters) and the hospital had
not found a pregnancy when she was tested.
Sure enough, as strange as it
was, she realized she was in labor! Leland went into action. Their phone
was out of service because of the weather – his car couldn’t leave the
property because of the flooding – so, he started walking to get help.
What a guy!
Esther said that her husband walked the railroad tracks on
higher ground about 11⁄2 miles to Peoria and there he was able to phone
Dr. Marsh. That must’ve been a surprise to the Dr. too. Dr. Marsh apparently then sent two teenage boys with a row boat to get Esther.
When they arrived at her home rowing the boat to her front door she was
surprised to see them, but must have been relieved that soon she would be
on her way to the hospital. She must’ve also said, “Can I really be having
a baby?”
After making the all important phone call, Leland returned to stay with his daughters and Esther was “rowed” away through the floodwaters
by these two young strangers to the waiting ambulance of Willard Winters.
He owned a funeral home in Raymond and was located just 1⁄4 mile away on
dry ground.
Soon after she floated in, she was quickly loaded into the
waiting ambulance and taken to Memorial Hospital in Marysville. After a
short labor time she delivered her son, David. What a surprise! She did well, he was healthy and just recently celebrated his 50th birthday.
Even
though Dave was unexpected, he has had a good life and Esther said he has
been a wonderful son. So, 50 years ago David Smith came into this world
with the help of many — including those two complete strangers with a row
boat.
2/20/09
George Washington’s Day
Earlier this week we celebrated what we now call
Presidents’ Day.
It is always on the third Monday of February. Until it was
changed, the birthdays of both Abraham Lincoln (Feb. 12) and George
Washington (Feb. 22) were celebrated seperately. Now, they are celebrated together on one day.
Washington's Birthday was first celebrated in the
District of Columbia in 1880. It was made a federal holiday in 1885 to
honor the life and work of our first president. The commemoration was originally held on the anniversary of George Washington's birth, on Feb. 22. In 1971, the holiday was moved to the third Monday in February
and coupled with honoring Lincoln’s birthday.
Now you know the history of
the event, here is more about our first president.
In the 1740s, when
chivalry was important, young George Washington created a list he called
the 110 rules of civility and decent behavior in company and conversation.
According to historian Richard Brookhiser, it was based on the 16th century
set of precepts that were compiled for young gentleman by Jesuit
instructors. These rules were one of the earliest and most powerful forces
to shape the early life of George Washington.
I will just share a few
of these rules with you. Perhaps some of these would be good for our lives
today.
George Washington’s rules of civility and behavior:
Every
action done in company ought to be with some sign of respect to those that
are present.
In the presence of others, sing not to yourself with a
humming noise, nor drum with your fingers or feet.
If you cough,
sneeze, sigh or yawn, do it not aloud, but privately and speak not in your
yawning, but put your handkerchief or hand before your face and turn
aside.
Sleep not when others speak, sit not when others stand, speak not when you should hold your peace, walk not on when others stop.
Put not
off your clothes in the presence of others, nor go out your chamber
half-dressed.
Spit not in the fire, nor stoop before it, neither put your
hands into the flames to warm them, nor set your feet upon the fire
especially if there be meat before it.
Shift not yourself in the sight
of others nor gnaw your nails.
Kill no vermin as fleas, lice, ticks, in the
sight of others; if you see any filth or thick spittle put your foot upon
it, if it be
upon the clothes of your companions then put it off privately
and if it be upon your own clothes return privately.
Let your
countenance be pleasant, but in serious matters somewhat grave.
The
gestures of the body must be suited to the discourse you are upon.
When you
see a crime punished, you may be inwardly pleased, but always show pity to
the suffering offender.
Do not laugh too loud or too much at any public
spectacle.
You can see that Washington was concerned about acting in a
proper manner and he set the tone for all presidents to follow him. Many years ago, a monument was built to him in Washington, D.C. Here are some interesting notes about the structure.
There can never be a
building built of greater height than the Washington Monument. On the
aluminum cap are displayed two words: Laus Deo. No one can see these words.
In fact, most visitors to the monument are totally unaware they are even
there.
These words have been there for many years; they are 555 feet in the air, 5.125 inches high, perched atop the monument, facing skyward,
overlooking the 69 square miles which comprise the District of Columbia.
Laus Deo in Latin, composed of just four syllables and only seven letters
means, “Praise be to God!”
Though construction of this giant obelisk began
in 1848 when James Polk was President of the United States, it was not
opened until 1888.
From atop this granite and marble structure, visitors
can also easily see the original plan of the designer, Pierre Charles
l'Enfant. It shows a perfect cross imposed upon the landscape, with the
White House to the north. the Jefferson Memorial is to the south, the
Capitol to the east and the Lincoln Memorial to the west. Within the
monument itself are 898 steps and 50 landings.
Washington was a great man
who got our country off to a good start and thus we celebrate his
life.
Mailbox
I received the following note from Tom Morgan about my
recent article on southern Union County gunsmith Bob Edwards.
“I was
one of the people you were talking about (who brought guns to Edwards to
fix). In 1960, I thought I was a gunsmith. I made the trip from Ostrander
to Bob’s once a month for Bob to bail me out when I got in over my head.
Never once did he fail to help me get guns fixed that had me totally
stumped. Tom Morgan, 8669 Mills Rd., Ostrander.
2/13/09
A Valentine story
Theirs is a perfect story for Valentine’s
Day. It is one of love, understanding and conquering of a life altering
problem.
At one time, Kevin Mabry was battling clinical depression, and he
and his wife, Nancy, were going through a very difficult time. Nancy wrote
something which described the situation and their feelings. The words were put
to music and recently Holly Underwood called me about this story. She told me
that Kevin sang the song Nancy wrote at their friend’s funeral. She wondered
about its origin since it so fit the occasion. When the Mabrys explained the
situation to her, she wanted me to know the rest of the story — so here it
is.
Kevin and Nancy met in high school. She was a freshman (class of ‘75) and
he was a senior (class of ‘72) at Fairbanks. Soon they were dating and an item,
and after he graduated, he went on to college at Urbana College. On the side, he
continued his painting and wallpapering business which was good income and
helped him finance his bachelor’s degree.
One year after Nancy graduated from
high school they married and Kevin continued his lucrative painting business. He
was also pursuing his passion for music with a local band, Kevin Mabry and
Liberty Street.
Country music was always part of his life, but soon that
would take another turn — to the spiritual side. By the mid 1980s, Kevin and
Nancy had two daughters, Chelsey and Katie, and Kevin had left Liberty Street
and was recording his new choice of music (gospel) in Nashville.
By the
1990s, the Mabry family had started a concession business selling iced tea in a
big way — eventually growing to the use of eight trailers at some 32 events on
the fair circuit. They work very hard for about six months a year.
It was a
good life, but because of Kevin’s health the family began to suffer. His problem
was diagnosed as clinical depression and medical help had to be obtained. But
finding the right combination of drugs to help treat the chemical imbalance in
his body took some time.
There were times when Nancy needed extra help and
she was able to obtain it from family, friends and, of course, her faith in God.
During her most troubling time, she sat down and wrote their story telling of
her trust in God to restore Kevin’s health.
After Kevin’s recovery, he
thought her words to God were so apropos that they should be put to music by a
friend in Nashville. Nancy said: “The song came to me during a prayer and while
I was writing down my thoughts. Many people have terrible things happen to them
in their lives. I explained to my girls that it’s not what happens that counts,
it’s how we handle those problems. It reflects who we are and what we stand
for.”
She continued: “The song came from our love and faithfulness to each
other and staying true to our faith in the peaks of life, but more importantly
staying faithful to each other and to God in the valleys.”
I have been
privileged to hear all the tunes on this new CD titled "Keep on Believing"
(getting play on Springfield radio). It contains spiritually based songs, many
of which were written by Kevin, and is something to enjoy. It includes the song
Holly Underwood mentioned to me.
Here is the first verse and chorus of that
song, “As If Only For Me.”
A thief in the night had taken the thing most
precious to me, my peace, my joy, my purpose had been robbed, by the enemy.
Darkness seemed to surround me, oppression had taken its toll. Then God’s face
shown warm all around me in that struggle beyond my control.
Now the
battle’s been fought and the victory’s been won by the One who set me free. And
I rest in the hope of the blood that was shed on the cross as if only for me. On
the cross as if only for me.
Kevin has conquered his depression (which he has
been quite open about in the past) and life is good for him and Nancy. They
credit their return to normalcy to medical help and their faith in God. Their
love story is perfect for this Valentine’s Day.
Happy Valentine’s Day to you
all!
2/6/09
Gun safety learned early
Back in the 1950s, the Edwards Gun and Firing
Range was the place to be if your interests were in rare guns, rifle repair
or hunting. It was originally located on the farm of Bob Strausbaugh on
Rosedale-Milford Center Rd. in southern Union County, since the Edwards
family lived in the tenant house on the farm. In 1950, the Edwards family built their own home next door and later, their gun shop and shooting range.
The Edwards family, which included five children, a daughter Phyllis and then two sets of twins born just 13 months apart, were all
in the gun business (the children worked even at a young age). The first
set of twins were girls, Karen and Sharon, and shortly after that, twins
Raymond and Robert joined the family. That certainly made things very busy
for their mother and father Bob and Ruth who quickly had five
children.
Son Bob Edwards recounted some of his memories of living on the farm and his early association with guns because of his father’s business. His dad sold guns, ammunition and later, when the oldest twins were just three, had a trap shooting facility and firing range on
the property next door.
Bob said: “On Saturdays and Sundays gun traders
from all over central Ohio would stop by to deal with my father. One dealer
in particular would bring all his pistols in an old sock in the trunk of his car.” (Hmm?)
He continued: “Gun buyers were people from all walks
of life including farmers, doctors, lawyers and even politicians. Bill
Saxbe, former Attorney General of Ohio and later Attorney General of the United States, was a steady patron of the shop. When he came to the shop, Secret Service agents used to be real nervous with all the guns lying around. You see one time my father and Bill had overloaded a homemade cannon and it blew up.”
“My father used to make his own
‘hand-loaded’ ammunition, which he sold and stored early-on in the cellar.
On one occasion, he tried another person’s ‘hand loads’ in a 1917 Colt
revolver. It blew part of the cylinder through the neighbor’s Cherry tree,
100 yards away. That neighbor’s name was Bill Purdue and he had been
playing his Hawaiian Steel guitar when that part of the gun went through
the leaves of a tree nearby.”
The Edwards children were taught from
day one to never point a gun at anything you didn’t want to shoot. After
school the children would go to the reloading room in the gun shop and help
with the chore of keeping ammo on the shelf for the upcoming weekend. They
made their own bullets with a mold and then followed the five-step process
to make the ammunition. Bob said that in those days there were many varmint hunters buying high powered rifle ammo.
He said that in the
later years on their range, there were two clay bird traps that ran
constantly during the fall months and in early winter. During the trap
shooting time, cars would park on both sides of the road for a quarter of a
mile in both directions to come to enjoy the facilities. Raymond and Bob
spent eight to 10 hours a day on weekends resetting the traps in
steel-lined trap houses. (I guess that was safe.) The clay birds had to be
propelled by hand until the 1960s.
Bob recounted: “The business was
especially exciting on the evening before hunting season because Amish
families would come to buy shotguns for their sons for the first day of the
season and we would sell everything in stock. Keep in mind that there would
be an average of 100 to 200 guns in the shop at one time. Especially
exciting was the time we had 18 Trapdoor Springfield rifles (from Gen.
George Custer’s Civil War time) to sell. We often had all types of guns — Marlins, Winchesters, Colts and Smith and Wessons. Probably the rarest
gun we ever had was an early model Colt SA (single action) pistol with a
one digit serial number. It dated to about 1870. That pistol would be worth
hundreds of thousands today.”
Bob remembered: “My dad was a premier
gunsmith and would fix guns when others had given up. My brother Ray became
an excellent woodworker and stock refinisher.
Such was the life of the
Edwards family in the 1950s and 60s in southern Union County. It was a time
when guns could be shot freely. At that time their business was located way
out in the country. Trap shooting with clay birds was a popular pastime and
a very good business for this family who worked together.
Both of
their parents have passed away and now Raymond lives in Westerville and
works as a maintenance electrician. Karen is in Milford Center and is
retired from Honda while twin sister Sharon lives in Connecticut and has
worked as a successful stockbroker. Phyllis lives in Shelbyville, Ind. and
Bob lives in the Toledo area and is a transportation manager. You can reach
Bob at cannonrpe1947@yahoo.com.
1/30/09
The inauguration up close and personal
Most Americans never have a chance to
see a president sworn into office, but as only a freshman at Muskingum
College, Brandon Creagan has been there. While at Marysville High School
(class of ‘08) Brandon was recognized by the National Leadership Forum on
Medicine and subsequently received an invitation to the inauguration of President Barack Obama.
His adventure, while on this five-day visit to
Washington, D.C., was one of managing cold outdoor temperatures, long hours
of standing and supreme elation at literally seeing the man he voted for
become President of the United States.
His journey began on Saturday,
Jan. 17. After arriving in Washington D.C., his group of college students
stayed just four blocks from the White House at the plush Grand Hyatt
Hotel. They quickly began the round of educational seminars set up by their
sponsoring group. They heard speeches from people like Luke Russert, Al
Gore, Colin Powell and attended seminars conducted by James Carville and
Mary Matalin plus Jim Roosevelt, grandson of President Franklin D.
Roosevelt.
It was then day two and the students moved on to the Lincoln
Memorial with cold weather and an outdoor concert (a tough ticket to get)
that many of us watched on TV. Brandon saw Queen Latifa, Tiger Woods, Denzel Washington and Steve Carell who all gave speeches. Other performers at the concert were Stevie Wonder, John Legend U2, Usher and
Shakira. Obama and Joe Biden both also gave speeches at this event.
Day three
offered the final seminars and then there was day four — the inauguration.
This was the time they were anxiously anticipating. To say it began early
and lasted long would be a ridiculous understatement.
Brandon and his
roommate awoke just before 3 a.m. on Jan. 20 and headed out into the cold
and dark with a coat, scarf, hat and gloves. When they arrived at the gates
to the mall area where they would save their spot to watch the
inauguration, they discovered the Secret Service had closed the space until
9 a.m. That would be six more hours! One good thing was that the sun would
surely be up by then and the temperatures might move on up into the teens
or low 20s.
Even though it was a long cold wait of about nine hours, they
stood and prepared to see the inauguration of the 44th president of the United States. After waiting six hours at an entrance on Seventh St., they discovered that no one could enter there unless, as Brandon remembers, they were important or famous.
So, Brandon said: “We had to
walk all the way around to 18th St. to get in, but once we got there we
stood and had a clear view of the Capitol in front of the Washington
Monument. There was a big screen so we could see what was going on up
close. The experience of being there was so amazing especially when Obama
gave his speech. People had tears of joy and it was a happy moment.
Following the event, it took us two hours to get back to the hotel because
everyone was funneled down one street, all one million or so of
us.”
Brandon continued: “When I got back to the hotel I starting to get ready for the Inaugural Ball (of course he wore a tux), which was being
held at the Smithsonian Air and Space Museum. (This was a ball for their
group of students.) There they served us appetizers and drinks and on the
television we watched the first dance of Barack and Michelle
Obama.”
Brandon said there was no dancing for him at the ball because his legs were killing him from standing those nine hours waiting for the Inauguration to begin.
“Around midnight or so the President came to our
ball just to say ‘Hi’ and then had to leave. We all went home quickly after
that, exhausted.”
Brandon has had the trip of a lifetime. It would be a
fantastic experience for anyone, especially a college student who may now
be torn between a career in medicine and one in politics. We’ll see in the near future what influence this whole experience has had on
him.
1/23/09
His journey to the top
This is a continuation of the story of Erin Snowden,
of Zanesfield, his tremendous weight loss (155 lbs. through bariatric
surgery) and his quest to conquer Mt. Everest.
Last week I told you
about his weight loss and how after his two-year recovery from the 2004
surgery which saved his life (he was only in his late 30s), he needed
another cause. Mt. Everest was it.
Erin toned his new 205 lb. body (formerly
360) into shape by working out at the “Y” in Marysville four to five hours
a day. Now he still weighs 205 but has only 13 percent body fat and looks
fit, toned and solid.
He said: “In the beginning my workouts were
unsatisfying and usually resulted in going home very sore. However, it
didn’t take long to begin seeing the results of my hard work. Other people
began watching my workouts and the intensity which I brought to the workout
room. I developed a wide variety of training programs and techniques;
cardio and strength conditioning had become a very large part of my life. During my workouts I would visualize standing on the top of a mountain
looking down at all the people eating bags of potato chips and sitting on
their couches. I would think to myself, I wish I could help them see how
their lives could change with diet and exercise. My focus was and still is
to be the strongest that I have ever been.”
Erin told me you can’t just go
climb a mountain. There are paths to follow, one which demands the body be
fit and the other is learning all the basic mountain climbing skills. Both
are equally important.
He began his quest to climb Mt. Everest by entering
organized bike rides, some 200 miles long. His spinning classes at the “Y”
at high resistance undoubtedly helped with that.
Last summer he did his
first big climb, which was Mt. Rainer near Seattle, Wash. This was a
six-day expedition/seminar, where the group first learned skills needed to
be a climbing guide and to scale the mountain. Some skills included using
an ice axe to stop a downward fall. Erin says, “First you yell ‘falling’
then dig in just the point of the axe to stop.” Important to know, I would
think!
This climb was done carrying a 65 lb. backpack and pulling a sled with extra supplies. Fortunately the weight of the supplies decreases as they are used up while scaling the mountain.
After climbing Mt.
Rainier last summer (the most glaciated in the lower 48 states) Mt.
McKinley in Alaska is Erin’s next event. He says it is good preparation for
the goal of Mt. Everest, which he has tentatively scheduled for the summer
of 2011.
Erin said: “Since I’ve already completed the first step in my plan
to climb Mt. Everest, I’ve decided that I’m ready for the next, Mt. McKinley. It is nicknamed ‘The Great One’ and named to honor President
William McKinley. As a descendant of William McKinley, I am using this
opportunity to climb his mountain as a way to honor my family.”
Erin
continued: “Mt. McKinley has larger bulk and higher rise than Mt. Everest.
Additionally, because of the high altitude (20,320 ft. above sea level) and
also the higher latitude, the levels of oxygen are much lower than that of
mountains of similar height. The weather is typically worse than is
experienced on Mt. Everest. Mt. McKinley is also referred to as Denali, the
native name, which is the name currently recognized by the state of
Alaska.”
Erin’s cost to climb Mt. McKinley will be about $7,900.
While
physical training is very important for climbing a mountain, it cannot be
done without the proper cold weather gear. The clothing and climbing tools
all need to be top quality, and most important, suitable enough to climb in
the worst weather imaginable.
This is a very driven and determined young man
who has already conquered a huge weight problem, 200-mile bike rides, one
mountain and soon another, and all while earning a college degree in
business — magna cum laude. Oh yes, he also has a full-time job in the
night shift at Mount Carmel Hospital in Columbus, 55 miles from his
home.
He has a goal and could use some help getting there. To learn more about Erin’s mountain climbing adventures and sponsorships you can go to his Web site, www.myjourneytothetop.org.
Erin
believes he has a lot to offer the world and is working hard to be prepared
for his future in the world of business and finance and as a member of the
elite who have conquered Mt. Everest.
1/16/09
Currently he’s a mountain climber in training and on his way to Mt.
McKinley … then Mt. Everest. Erin Snowden’s road to this point has been
unconventional to say the least. Before he could start training for the
ultimate climb (Everest) he had lost 155 pounds of his body weight.
Here’s how he did it.
Erin, who now resides in Zanesfield, grew up
in the Dayton area and graduated from Beaver Creek High School in
1986. After that, there was about a year of college, where he said he
got lazy, drank beer and gained weight. The best solution to this
problem was the U.S. Marine Corps, which he entered in May 1988.
During
this time, Erin started power lifting and came very close to the bench
press world record of 633 1⁄2 pounds. Four years later after leaving
the Marines, he stopped lifting and laziness crept in again. He said he
had a car so he didn’t have to walk.
Between 1992 and 2004 Erin’s
weight ballooned up to 360 pounds. His health was terrible as a result
and that’s when he sought help to lose the weight.
Soon it became
clear that bariatric surgery was the answer, but the process toward the
procedure took about a year and included psychological and nutritional
counseling. Also known as gastric bypass surgery, the procedure was
described by Erin as removal of the top portion of the stomach where
the “full” sensation is realized with reattachment to the intestine.
This smaller portion then serves as the stomach.
His surgeon did
not know until he opened him up that Erin had a birth defect called
intestinal malrotation. This meant that his intestines ran vertically
instead of horizontally as in most people.
Because of this problem,
more extensive surgery was required than Erin had expected and when he
awoke, instead of having a small laparoscopic incision, his was 18
inches long. Not surprisingly, it was very sore and hard to walk for
weeks, two of which were spent in the hospital.
During those two
weeks he didn’t eat a thing and lost 41 pounds. Meanwhile, he had the
full support of his wife, Brenda, and son Jacob.
Erin’s surgery was
at Mount Carmel Hospital in Columbus. He was an employee there working
in the maintenance department. He still drives that 55 mile trek daily
from his home in Zanesfield to work the night shift.
One of the most
heartening parts of this story is the donation of sick days from Erin’s
fellow employees. He needed three months off work and he used all of
his time. Then the donations started coming in. Sick days were given
for him from members of his department and many others.
Erin’s
recovery went well and for six weeks all he consumed was liquid and
pureed food. Apparently the hamburgers are the grossest looking of the
puree. The transition to solids went slowly and he ate only about the
amount of food which would fit in the palm of your hand.
If the food was not very well chewed, there was pain involved in the digestion process and he learned very quickly to chew it!
The weight started dropping off with no work-out type exercise. None was recommended for two years.
By
2006, two years after the surgery, Erin had lost 155 pounds and weighed
a respectable 205 with 22 percent body fat (you can see he is very much
into statistics now.)
Currently he works out four to five hours a
day at the YMCA in Marysville with spinning classes at highest
resistance and running on the treadmill as just part of his routine.
He
still works the night shift at Mount Carmel and — get this — goes to
Franklin University on the side. These efforts have earned him an
associate degree (Magna Cum Laude) in business this month and the
regular exercise has reduced him to only 13 percent body fat still
weighing 205 pounds. Now he will also continue on for a bachelor’s
degree in finance.
You can see he has tremendous determination and
his most recent passion is mountain climbing. He conquered Mt. Rainier
in the state of Washington last summer and this summer his goal is Mt.
McKinley in Alaska.
This “sport” is expensive and Erin needs to
raise money. You can read about his climbing adventures, future hopes
and donation opportunities at his Web site — www. myjourneytothe
top.org.
Next week there will be more about Erin and his mountain climbing adventures.
1/9/09
We are reprinting this column from 2003 about our friend Jack Holton who
died Sunday. We hope it reminds you all of his special life.
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A good
Cop
He was born in Xenia, Ohio in 1929, but grew up in North Lewisburg with his grandparents. Jack Holton enjoyed that little town and said
in
the 1930s and '40s it was much more active than today.
In those years it
sported four groceries, a hardware store, bank, leather shop where they
repaired horse harnesses and a Ford dealership.
In the late 1930s a real
theater opened, but before that movies in North Lewisburg were shown in an
unconventional manner. You see,
people of the town would gather with their
own chairs on a blocked street. The movie of the weekend would be shown on
the wall of a
white building in the downtown on a warm summer
night.
Jack said important entertainment and a common practice was to go downtown on Saturday night and watch the people milling through the
shops. Apparently the same was true in Marysville in those
years.
Everyone ate at Vada's lunch spot and the kids swam in Spain’s Creek in the summertime.
In the late 1940s after high school, Jack went to work
at the Nestle Company in Marysville. There he met the woman who would
change his
life. Lois did the payroll and Jack spotted her at the time
card machine.
He said she was very cute and they just talked for several
months. Then he finally asked her for a date. Jack can’t remember where
they
went, but after that night, they were an item, marrying in June 1947 at the First Baptist Church of Xenia.
Jack stayed with the Nestle Company
for five years and moved on to North American Aviation in Columbus in 1952.
Soon the Holtons would
have two children, a daughter Jackie and a son
Rich.
While at North American, he helped build Navy jets and particularly the ejection seat. Eventually he was lured back to Marysville and
became part of the Marysville Police Department Auxiliary in a part-time position. I use the term position loosely, because they weren’t
paid for their time.
They rode in police cars at night and helped at
special events. The idea was they would be considered first when a
full-time position
opened on the force. By this time the Holtons had added
two more children, daughters Nancy and Debbie.
The year was 1961 and
Dick Simpson was police chief. He had a spot for Jack and must have guessed
what an excellent police officer he
would be.
The pay for 48 plus hours
with no overtime money was $3,000, but Jack was glad to join the force of
six officers. At that time our town was
a village of 5,000 people and there
was one police car. If it was out of commission, officers drove their own
car.
His first night on the job was a real test. It began at 8 p.m.. and ended at 4 a.m. His job was to walk all over downtown, checking for
unlocked doors on businesses. It was February, very cold with snow and
all the alleys were full of ice. There were no new uniforms in
those days,
so the new officers wore hand-me-downs and their own coat.
Jack became a much
respected officer. He tells me he always tried to help youngsters.
Sometimes it was better just to scare them a little
and that would keep
them from getting in trouble again.
Jack said, “It's not how many tickets you
can write, it’s how can I help this person?” Maybe even just a threat or
call to a parent would
do it.
In his later years on the force, Jack
became the chief investigator along with his regular duties. Now he says
the DNA tests are the best
new tool. It can save a lot of innocents from
jail.
One of his favorite stories is of a high school student he suspected of a crime. He worked with Bob Cotter who was vice principal at
Marysville High School at the time. Bob called the student into the office and he and Jack questioned him about the crime. There was no
confession.
Suddenly, Jack took the finger of the student and rolled it
over to look at the skin, which would make a fingerprint. He said this
finger
matches the print from the crime. The student fell for it and began confessing.
After retiring from the force in 1987, then county prosecutor
Larry Schneider asked Jack to be his investigator. His job was to
interview
witnesses, making sure the case was solid.
Thirteen years
after (2000), he retired again. Now he keeps his hand in the law as a
process server for local attorneys. However, he
begins each day at Herron’s
Deli for the well known “morning coffee break.” There, he and his friends
discuss the ills of the world with
few solutions and some
disagreements.
The rest of his spare time is spent fishing from his 14-foot
boat. This year he has also taken on the job of Commander of the Raper
Commandry No. 19 of the Masonic Lodge in Urbana. In this capacity he presides over meetings, reciting everything from memory, which takes
hours of studying.
His wife Lois has been his “rock” all this time. He is
obviously still quite in love after nearly 56 years together. They are
still
having a good life!
1/2/09
Soldier, boxer and proud father
This is the third in a series of stories
about Natalia Laschenova and Roman Kravchenko, natives of the USSR, who now
live in Marysville.
She was an Olympic gold medalist for the Soviet
gymnastics team in 1988 and he was a champion boxer and member of the
Spetznatz, a
special forces group of the Soviet army. They have three
children growing up in Marysville. Last week I told you about Natalia and
this
week is Roman’s story.
He was a child of the USSR and born into a
military family. His father rose to the rank of general in the Soviet Army.
Roman’s family
moved quite a lot because of his father’s military job, but
they spent most of their time in Leningrad, now known as St. Petersburg,
Russia.
From the time he was a little boy he was in a special school
for sports. Boxing was his favorite. He began at six years old and later
his training extended to wrestling and hand to hand combat.
When he was
14, Roman was accepted into Suvorov Military Academy, to prepare to be an
army officer and also continue his emphasis on
boxing. He lived 12 hours
away from his family and only saw them about three weeks a year as a
14-year-old child. He graduated and
went on to a prestigious military
university that took only 10 percent of its applicants. During these times
Roman would only see
his family once every three or four years. He again
excelled in boxing (50 wins-2 losses) and hand to hand fighting.
Now it
was the late 1980s and as part of his military training (internship) he was
sent to observe and fight with Soviet forces in
Afghanistan. There he could
test the skills he was learning at the military university. He told me that
at one time the Soviet forces
had captured Osama Bin Ladin and ended up
trading him for a captured Soviet general.
Roman was a member of
Spetznatz (special forces — blue berets). The toughest guys qualify for
this. He made over 500 paratrooper jumps
and was severely injured in
Afghanistan from an explosion. He took a group of 10 men into combat and
only he and another returned. He
doesn’t remember the helicopter ride out,
but awoke in the hospital with severe head injuries.
When a member of
the Spetznatz, you are really considered to be there for life and it is
hard to get out of the service. But by 1991, Roman
was ready to make a
change. Because of his father’s rank as general he was able to leave the
special forces.
Fighting for the Soviet Army took its toll on Roman and his
first marriage. It ended quickly because he was gone all the time and he
said he was obsessed with being a good military officer. There was a second marriage and again Roman knew his whole life was the military.
The best thing to come from this was his daughter Vesta (who now lives
with him here in Marysville).
In fact, Vesta was the key to meeting his
current wife, Natalia, who was coaching gymnastics at the gym in Belarus
where Vesta was
enrolled. Roman came to visit Vesta and there you are! He
and Natalia became an item and eventually moved to Moscow with her daughter
Sasha
and they married in 1998. Vesta stayed behind with her
mother.
Roman had a good job supervising a security firm and also teaching hand to hand combat to the military as a civilian. He said he had a
car, a boat and apartments, and things were going well. Natalia then had the opportunity to go to the U.S. to coach gymnastics through her
former Olympic coach. So Roman, Natalia and Sasha left their
homeland,
which by this time was split into many different countries. In fact Roman
says, “My country was broken. It is not the one I knew
as the USSR.”
By
1999, corruption had crept into every part of the former Soviet Union as
its people tried out their new freedom. He said, “It was
like the U.S. in
the 1920s.”
Since living in the U.S., Roman has coached many championship
boxers, and after being here nine years he has just received a visa which
allows him to work — actually get paid for his work, that is. Now he hopes to help support his family, too.
The time when he was not been
able to work was certainly put to good use, however, since he and Natalia
had a little boy, Anthony,
just 14 months ago. Natalia’s hours are crazy as
a gymnastics coach so Roman has been the main caretaker of his prized
son.
About three years ago, Vesta’s mother died in Russia and she came to live with Natalia and Roman and stepsister Sasha. She graduated from
Marysville High School and has also just received a work permit so she
now hopes to save money and head off to college next fall.
Roman is kind,
warm, friendly and eager to share his experiences of life. When they
invited me to their home, I also discovered he is a
very good cook,
treating me to some Russian dishes. He has been a tough fighter in the army
of this country and is now a warm and
caring father to his children. He
hopes U.S. citizenship for all of them will be their next
accomplishment.
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